Anti-Social Behavior

Question: Anti-Social Behavior? I've never minded being an anti-social person until recently, I was with a girl for a little while who was way way more social then I could ever handle, but it all fell apart for that reason. I guess my only concern is that I will never have anybody in my life to get close too, because I dont go out and do things, I dont know how to meet new people, I never last more than an hour at parties and internet relationships are not ideal for me. Aside of being anti-social, I have jealousy issues, which stems to confidence, I have no health insurance and cannot afford any. So my question I guess is, am I doomed to lonliness for the rest of my life, or is there something I can do to rid of this issue and just be normal, human, someone, rather then a shadow hiding with my dog in my apartment, then going to work and coming back to do it all over again, every damn day? Life is this?

Answer: That's being shy, not anti-social. Anti-social is behaving detrimental to social order. So don't listen to the guy telling you your a sociopath.

Question: Do people realize that poverty is more related to anti social behavior/criminal activity then race? There seems to be a lot of studies out there pointing to blacks as the cause of crime. But has anyone considered that perhaps poverty is the cause for most of that? I am not saying all poor people are criminals, but poverty has a very negative effect on people with emotional instability or lower then average intelligence. Usually resulting in mild to severe forms of anti social behavior.

Answer: The DNA scientist Dr. James Watson had an explanation for it. OVERALL some races are less intelligent than other races. Blacks seriously need their own eugenics program.

Question: Anti-Social-Behavior? There a man at the bottom of the garden who keeps playing music at all hours! Now he moans our dogs barking but he keeps shouting wolf wolf wolf winding them up what am I recommended to do?

Answer: I take it he's you're neighbour and not literally living at the bottom of your garden like an elf? You can call the police and ask them to look into it because they will have to investigate - but they only do this if you call them first and not the other way around. Say he is being a nuisance neighbour.

Question: ANTI-social Behavior?? Should employers employ persons with multiple DWI'S or Drug Issues??

Answer: It would depend on what they have done to help themselves. I wouldn't consider hiring a person where they've done nothing to change their habits, I think you'd only be looking at trouble. Multiple DWI's and drug problems suggest bad decision making abilities and problems with self control, not a good candidate for hiring. Would you want someone like that driving the school bus that takes your children to school?

Question: Is it just me or does the internet tend to attract people with anti-social behavior? Does it seem more of the men display these anti-social behaviors? To the first poster chill out and I can't eat spaghetti thank you. lightfoot: Really? *ponders* blogger: I agree at least they are off the streets. To the first poster french fries are over rated. Nick B: Well said. teeleecee: I think you may be on to something! Crash: I bring it up because I see a lot of anti-social behavior on these boards and it got me curious---I guess it sparked my natural interest in human behavior.

Answer: It's a chicken/egg phenomena: people get into the computer and make it their worlds. These people become anti-social in real life and have difficulty communicating with people. They tend to take their frustration out on anyone who will listen...literal sounding boards. So...I think technology is making people more anti-social, and because so many are "living in" their computers, anti-social behaviour is evident in the internet. I don't think men do it more than women, although I do think men have more power when it comes to technology: there are more men in high level computing positions of all kinds (robotics, biomedical, AI...) and more men who know more about computers in general. I say that because gaming is closely connected to men, and gaming is highly technical and sophisticated. Women exhibit anti-social behaviours as much as men, in my opinion.

Question: What's wrong with anti-social behavior, especially if your not violent? Although, violence does sound grand at times. Still, anti-social behavior is hurting anyone so what's the problem? People act like it is some sort of disease. I meant not hurting anyone.

Answer: I believe that people are not accustomed to seeing someone who is anti social and yet is a normal sane human being, there is always an association with a violent behavior. Im leaning toward anti social but you wont see me in a corner all by myself either, as long as theres a balance between social and anti social I think its healthy.

Question: Is this considered anti-social behavior or just being really shy? I think that my boyfriend is anti-social but I just wanna know anyway... Whenever he is asked to go somewhere with someone, he turns down the offer, even if it's with me. He doesn't talk to people and he's really shy. But yet he cares about what other people think about him. What is this?

Answer: I agree with the other person. Maybe he is afraid that others may percieve him in a bad way, so he plays it safe and distances himself from everyone else. Remember everyone wants to be liked...even if it's by a few. Talk to him and ask him why he is like that.

Question: How would I go about getting help for my anti-social behavior? I need help, but I don't know where to start. I'm mostly concern about cost and finding the right doctor. Are there any health insurance plans that cover mental health? How much are the rates usually? Would I be able to "shop around"?

Answer: It depends what kind of anti-social behavior you're talking about and where you are. I would start by going to see your GP. You can ask these questions and get an estimate of all these things. They can also refer you to someone and can do this dependent on your budget.

Question: Is there a special name for people who don't understand anti-social behavior? I believe there is a psychological name for people who literally don't understand anti-social behavior (i.e. littering, theft) but i can't think of what it is. Is there such a word for this "mental disorder"

Answer: I am a psychologist and I don't know a name for people who don't understand anti-social behavior. It is not a mental disorder to not understand it. And there are probably lots of people who do not understand why other people violate the rules of society. Another word for people with antisocial personality is sociopath.

Question: Why are all these stalkers exhibiting anti-social behavior? I am extremely concerned that people like these are in positions of power. I think I will just kill all of them. That would benifit society a lot. I accidently misspelled *benefit*. Yeah, exactly.

Answer: That's different from a mere single stalker, that would be a conspiracy of silence. Which is a whole different kettle of fish.

Question: Is there any way to reverse my anti social behavior? I haven't had any friends in over 5 years since I left high school and began isolating myself. I'm now nearly 22 and I want to know how to become more sociable. I feel so awkward around large groups, or even talking one on one with someone. People always tell me I'm boring, but I don't want to be like this any more. Is there any help for me?

Answer: See a therapist and possibly a Psychiatrist to be evaluated for Social Anxiety disorder. Medication has helped people with anxiety disorders. Also, just doing things is a way to meet people. Do you go to school, or work, or go to a gym? You have to do something that you like and find other who are doing the same thing, friend ships form that wat slowly and very naturally.

Question: Is it true that irrational people are prone to anti-social behavior and a danger to society? and if yes, is it wrong to manipulate them in order to bring them under control to prevent them causing damage at large? Cause I often do this with people who do not want to listen to reason, just only to people who agree with them. I do it by kissing up to them to get in their good graces and then slowing change them. Is this good or bad? I mean those types who only like to hear people who share their opinions and wish not to hear nothing else. Interesting idea keith.

Answer: To your initial question, no...people like that are not prone to becoming anti-social nor are they a danger to society. They aren't being irrational, they are being normal human beings from your description. Most people do not want to associate themselves with people who are too different from them physically, ideologically, etc.. Its human nature. In fact, since I'm dissenting with your ideas, I'm almost certain you won't pick this question as best answer, no matter how true what I say may be ^_~. To your second question, even if they are being irrational, it isn't really your responsibility to change them nor do you have the right to. As long as they are not hurting you, you don't need to try to change them. They can be annoying, but all you have to do is not associate with them. I'm very sure they would not appreciate you trying to trick them into being your friend so you can change them. By meddling in their personalities, you are disrespecting their beliefs and doing something that really isn't any of your business. Really, its the type of people who choose to force their ideas on other people who aren't hurting them (whether aggressively or passively) that are a danger to society...... EDIT: If you want to change the hearts of people around you, be true to them, don't manipulate them. Like Keith said, start a project that expresses your beliefs and let them hear you out. You may not change their mind then and there, but you give them something to think about. And its much, much better than to assume them psychopathic and try to force them to change.

Question: What are the key characteristics of anti-social behavior? Just wondering.

Answer: The DSM-IV states it as: A. There is a pervasive pattern of disregard for and violation of the rights of others occurring since age 15 years, as indicated by three (or more) of the following: failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure impulsivity or failure to plan ahead irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults reckless disregard for safety of self or others consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another. B. The individual is at least age 18 years. C. There is evidence of conduct disorder with onset before age 15 years. D. The occurrence of antisocial behavior is not exclusively during the course of schizophrenia or a manic episode.

Question: My school doesn't allow Anti-social behavior? What does this mean? I consider myself anti-social at times. i just don't like getting out and meeting new people. I prefer staying in the comfort of my own home. But i was looking through my school's "Student Handbook" and one of the rules was "No Anti-social or immoral behavior." now does this literally mean that i'm not allowed to be alone when i want to at school or is there a different meaning to this?

Answer: Well in the dictionary this is what i found. Hope it helps. immoral behavior- 1.not in conformity with accepted principles of right and wrong behavior 2.wicked 3.not in conformity with the accepted standards of proper sexual behavior; unchaste; lewd antisocial- 1.Shunning the society of others; not sociable. 2.Hostile to or disruptive of the established social order; marked by or engaging in behavior that violates accepted mores: gangs engaging in vandalism and other antisocial behavior. 3.Antagonistic toward or disrespectful of others; rude.

Question: Can being single for extended periods of time cause anti-social behavior to develop?

Answer: Don't think so if you have warm family

Question: What would be the polar opposite terminology for anti-social behavior?

Answer: A normal human being with a conscience and good moral standards.

Question: Do you think House from House MD is a narcissist or shows anti-social behavior? I think his character s just depressed and unconventional, he's a genius so it's hard to deal with most people and treat them like equals. what do you think of his character? I was just wondering because I'm watching the first episode of Season 6 and the Psych ward manager or whatever calls him a sociopath. I haven't watched every season

Answer: He's my hero. No joke.

Question: my miniature pinscher is driving me insane by his constant barking and anti social behavior. I got my min pin King about three years ago from a abusive owner.He barks constantly when ever my older brother gets home.My brother looks nothing like the old owner.I don't know what to to anymore.I just want him to be happy.He seems find around my other family member's.He barks constantly and its especially annoying when he does it in the middle of the night.He doesn't like to be touched and he's very anti social around people.How can i improve his behavior and make him stop barking at everything.

Answer: i would strongly suggest that you consult a private trainer

Question: Do you believe that greed leads to anti-social behavior? Thanks Liz M. Very wise.

Answer: Check out the Paulo Coehlo book "The Devil and Miss Prym." It's a short simple novel that delves into this question with extraordinary results.

Question: Was god and jesus invented by the CIA to combat anti social behavior?

Answer: No.