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Administration For Children And Families

The agency in the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) that houses the Office of Child Support Enforcement (OCSE).

Question: Our lives and Department of Children and Families? In December, our furnace broke down and we needed a replacement, so we would not freeze during the winter. So, my mother called the Red Cross and they referred us to the police department. The police came, initially to check out the problem with our furnace, because we were in dire need. However, they noticed the house was messy and told my parents it was actually a crime to allow minors to live in those conditions, as it's considered neglectful. The officer could have arrested them, and immediately taken us into custody. Instead, Department of Children of Families was contacted and a case/investigation began. An investigator worked with us in the investigation phase, and then an actual caseworker got involved. This caseworker has been in our lives for the past two months or so. He worked mainly with our parents and only spoke with us to check up on our well-being. I had some issues in the last two weeks of school, when the school psychologist had a negative reaction to me waving, because she perceived me to be "standing there", in a sense, stalking her. The story of me and her involves our personal issues, and we broke up in a therapeutic sense, not a friendship or relationship. I haven't seen her since the day I waved. It really left off a bad note. I didn't want to come to school because I was upset, upset that the administration prohibited me from coming in contact with her, and in spite of our personal issues, would not be included in a pizza party which she would host. I know it's all misunderstandings and such, and with her being a school psychologist she understands where I come from. She understands that it's quite common to develop an emotional bonding with a therapist because we're people first. And in most relationships emotional bonding can create sensitivity when there's conflict, meaning feelings can get hurt on a personal level. Well, I missed the last two weeks of school and only attended one day to make up some work. I passed every class except math, and did not graduate last night on stage because I needed that credit. I have to attend summer school. The caseworker came by the first day of exams and told me something about a 3X visit for an evaluation, but over the phone he said I would get counseling. He twisted it, and now I have to go to a psycho-sexual evaluation. I thought I was going to get general counseling, to get past the issue with the school psychologist and me. He says if I don't go it will be court-ordered. I was misinformed, and had no idea I signed an agreement for such an evaluation. We can't back out, and my mom tried to have me move out, so he won't need to follow through with this. No avail. What can we do to save our lives and get away from the system? We're too poor for a lawyer. He did say after 18 he can't enforce anything. I was 18 when I signed, but unbeknowst of the slip. Had I known I wouldn't have signed. With ink on a paper it's a tool they can use against me, even if my knowledge of the slip was incorrect due to misinformation by the presenter themselves. I have Asperger's syndrome. An incident occurred when I was four where I kissed my brother's penis. That was 14 years ago. No such incidents since. I occasionally lick necks of my siblings playfully, in a NON-sexual manner.

Answer: Sounds to me like they're offereing you helpto resolve your current situation. If you had decent control of your life it would be different but it sounds like you need help, so take it. The Dept of children and families doesn't get involved unless the cases are extreme, there's a big difference between living in a messy house and one that uninhabitable.

 


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