Confidential Relationship

Question: How does speaking another language effect a relationship? I'm italian and italian is my native language. In the past i got into relationships with abroad girls which led me to speak english, although I felt like not speaking with my own words.. I felt like being another person, it felt really strange. More than often i didnt recognize myself into my own words. Would you ever consider speaking in another language to help a possible love-relationship develop in order to get closer and more self confidential with your beloved? Would you be ready to set up a complete new mindset?

Answer: If you feel like a fraud speaking other languages, stick with girls that speak Italian.

Question: How do I handle a co-worker who I don't trust but knows confidential stuff about me? A co-worker and I started to become friends and confiding in each other. However, now they have information about me that they could use maliciously. I stopped trusting this person, but I don't know how to end the relationship without them backstabbing me and telling everyone my private affairs. Help!

Answer: That is an unfortunate situation, and there's nothing you can do to prevent someone you don't trust from using information against you. However, if they do use your private information against you this would be very unprofessional of them and would say just as much about their character as it would about you. In the meantime, don't worry pre-emptively about it and deal with it as it comes. Keep the peace with her and be civil, but also keep things to yourself in the future!

Question: If your boyfriend tell you all about his confidential professional problems and aspirations of his life? My relationship is almost 2 months old.. but my boyfriend tells me every little details of his professional life good or bad. He shares lot of things about himself? Is he really falling in loving with me.. because it's too early in relationship to be trusting someone so much?

Answer: He probably feels comfortable around you and he feels that he could trust you even though you're relationship is still new.

Question: What do you think of the new video of Obama caught on video brazenly lying about his relationship with acorn? http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/blogs/beltway-confidential/Obama-didnt-tell-the-truth-about-his-relationship-to-ACORN-84845947.html http://www.stoptheaclu.com/2010/02/20/caught-on-video-obama-brazenly-lying-about-relationship-with-acorn/ Mr Wolf...My gawd are you really that ignorant, listen to the tape...you libs are unreal!!

Answer: Anyone who followed the campaign for the 2008 election, doing some homework and research on their own, will not be the least bit surprised. One more validation added to a very long list.

Question: I m guy married but alone can any gal become my confidential partner? By partner I mean a gal who prefer to enjoy a relationship till it not give stress to your life and when it start giving stress its better to move on somewhere else. Everything with mutual consent and understanding

Answer: Just ask yourself: WIll you like if your wife does the same? If not then dont go for it, if yes, then go for it. Treat others the way you would like to be treated.

Question: I am looking for a counselor / relationship advisor who would be open to helping a bachelor I am currently going through alot with a few issues with my family and a girlfriend and could use some help. My family and friends do not have time to talk with me due to their own family and parental duties and I think if I don't get some good one on one feedback from a caring advisor I think I'll possibly spiral downward. If you are willing to help I promise to be confidential, respectful of your time, and open-minded. I can not pay you as my insurance and living expenses are maxed out but if you live in Indy I'll buy dinner, coffee, or a stoli.

Answer: Taking Authority over Your EmotionsEmotions are an area that many Christians don’t understand. Because of this, Believers often allow their emotions to lead them. As a result, emotionally-led decisions take them on a course that is out of the will of God for their lives. While God gave every human being emotions, it is critical that we get control over negative emotions and subject them to the Word of God. Make these daily confessions so that you can subject your feelings to God’s Word and make the right decisions: Heavenly Father, thank You for giving me healthy emotions. I declare that negative emotions will not impact my decisions, neither will they dictate my responses to difficult circumstances. I will submit my feelings to You in every situation that I encounter in life. You have given me authority over the power of the enemy, and I declare that nothing shall by any means hurt me, including people and situations that try to negatively influence my emotions. When I feel overwhelmed by life, or troubled by negative emotions, like Jesus, I will pray and keep moving forward I bind depression, anxiety, worry, fear, doubt, anger, rejection and any other negative emotion that tries to attack my mind. I possess power, love and a sound mind. I thank You, Father, that I walk in peace, joy and the comfort of the Holy Ghost. I have the mind of Christ and my emotions are controlled by the Word of God. In Jesus name I pray. Amen. Scriptural references: ·Mark 14:33-35 ·Luke 10:19 ·2 Timothy 1:7 ·Romans 14:17 ·1 Corinthians 2:16 God Bless U

Question: Would you continue a relationship with a parent who does not keep confidences? everything you tell them, they tell someone else even when you ask them to keep it confidential. I love this person and they do have alot of positive traits as well but I can't trust them...any advice on how to cope?

Answer: You learn to keep things to yourself...You know they will tell, so only share things you want others to know...

Question: Confidential Help - Do you need somebody to talk to about worries or fears?? Does anybody have any problems they would like to share with me? I am honest and enjoy giving people advice and guidance. I am a student and really benefit from helping others as it is part of my course. I will listen to anyone and try and help in the best way possible. Even if you feel like you have no one to turn to, just talking to someone or writing down your worries or things which make you sad always helps. From bullying to relationship worries I am here to help CONFIDENTIALY. Please do not write back if you are not genuine. I am here to help people who really want this help. And who knows I may have been through it too. If you just feel like you need someone to listen to you or to give you some helpful advice, I will try my best to help. A problem shared is a problem halved. write on this page or feel free to email me on l_piercey@yahoo.co.uk xx

Answer: Thats nice of you; I will keep a note of it..

Question: anybody got a story about abusive relationships? what you send me will remain confidential socialart class?

Answer: I have a couple of stories, but they aren't my own to tell.

Question: Both boys & girls ?? i need ur help ! on this relationship problem ~? hi . i am a 12 year old girl and i am best friends with another 12 yr old girl . we'll call her jane. okae . jane has a bf . but she doesn't like him. she onli dated him out of pity coz' when he asked her out he just broke up with his gf. so ... we'll call her retarded bf tom . okae . tom was a rich ass . he bought many stuff for jane . but then he doesn't know that jane does not have feelings for him . one daeee jane wanna break up with tom. but she is scared. so she asked me to conference and call her with him secretly hearing how she really feels (planned la .. jane knows but not tom) then tom sad la .. and bla bla bla . then he started ACCUSING jane for stuff like .. : she is running away from her realy feelings. : she is just upset that i might get angry for being used by her to show off ( he said that she tell many people about their relationship but it was really confidential) : she might not know if she might love me in the future. okae . all these CRAP . when she told him and straight-forwardly told him that she realise that she never likeed tom and just admired him. jane and i arranged a meeting and told tom that there are plenty of other fish in the sea . and he said what if i am a stubborn fish and i onli want you . WDFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF !!!! help my friend get off this stalker please !!!! ><

Answer: just concentrate on your studies and don't waste your mommy's money on your education.

Question: I need to interview someone who has Leukemia? I am a high school senior conducting an experiment to see if there is a relationship between blood type and age of diagnosis of Leukemia. Would you be willing to answer this short questionnaire? It is extremely confidential and I am having a lot of trouble finding people who are interested in completing the questionnaire. I will be entering this project into the YES Competition (young epidemiologist scholarship competitoin). Please include your email in your answer so that I can send you a copy of the questionnaire. Thank you! Why would I be lying?

Answer: I have leukemia...feel free to email me....you can message me on here and i'll send it to you that way.

Question: Are you in a abusive relationship and you really need help? Ask me advice and I will email you the answer.? My email is Chrystal842001@yahoo.com. This is completely Confidential. I really would like to help because I've had a sister and a friend who was murdered due to a controlling abusive relationship.

Answer: you can email me if you would like readyhead42@yahoo.com if you would like to talk sometimes it helps to talk about things i know

Question: Obligation of a premarital counselor to share (or keep confidential) with clergy any concerns about a couple? I was approached this evening by a recently engaged couple I've known for some time, asking me if I would officiate their wedding several months from now. The woman has been married before and has had stormy relationships in the past; I'm not sure about her fiance's past, although this would be his first marriage. I told them that my conducting their wedding was contingent upon the two of them going through premarital counseling with someone who is licensed and certified in counseling (which I am not). But I just got to wondering, given the confidential nature of counseling relationships, what information is a premarital counselor obligated to share with clergy with regard to a marriage going forward, and what must they keep confidential? I gave the couple the names of two marriage counselors I know personally, but having conducted only one other wedding (my uncle and his wife), this is new territory for me. Heather C, what recourse would I have as the attending clergy in making sure that the couple isn't going ahead with the wedding against the counselor's admonitions or advice? What if they are being frank with the counselor but not with me? There are confidentiality rules that apply to both counseling professionals and clergy, but what about when we are involved (albeit separately) in the marriage process?

Answer: can't they sign a waiver that says the counselor will share any information with the clergy that would be pertinent to your willingness or unwillingness to marry the two? Making sure that he (the groom to be) knows about her past. She maybe having received counsel so you know that she is better qualified now to make a decision like this?

Question: Is my EDD unemployment information confidential? ? I was laid off from my job a couple of months ago and I have been receiving CA EDD unemployment benefits until I find a new job. I am almost certain that the employer who laid me off is keeping tabs on me and that he might try to mess with my benefits. Though I am doing nothing wrong, I am concerned that he might try to mess with my unemployment benefits just to spite me as we did not always have a great work relationship and he is passive aggressive. Is my EDD information confidential - or does he have access to information about what benefits I receive? Since I am concerned about this, is there anything that I can do to make sure that this employer does not attempt to sabotage me? What information is available to them about my claim? Please be as specific as possible as I am genuinely concerned about this.

Answer: ~~He is notified of you claim against his account at the time you apply. If he had disputes against you filing, he would have had to file a dispute at that time and you would have had to go to a hearing to present your side as to why you are eligible. Obviously he did not do this, as you are receiving payments from UI. So there is not further action he can take, nor would he have access to information about your benefits. It is all through EDD now.~~

Question: Could I get confidential life insurance for one of my parents? I'm in Virginia and was wondering if I could do this for my mom. My reason is simply not having her go through a medical exam or asking her to sign documents because she is one of those people that refuses to deal with end of life issues before death. My father was the same and the funeral expenses were astronomical, and there were other expenses after he died. I don't want to go through this again. Helping your parents at the end of their lives is enough stress and I don't want to go through dealing with five figure unexpected expenses ever again. I am 34 and have already taken care of getting a health care directive and will for myself because of my experience at the end of my father's life a few years ago. I just wanted to be at his side but had to spend a lot of time sifting through bills and fighting the insurance company just to ensure he had a hospital or nursing home bed. Having unexpected bills adds more stress on a very stressful situation. When I bring up anything regarding a will, a health care directive...anything, she gets angry and speaks as if she is in denial. However, when she was in better health it was the same. Any suggestions are appreciated. Is confidential life insurance available for a parent or does it have to be a business relationship and not blood? Is this coverage available in VA?

Answer: I don't think you can get life insurance for your mum without her consent. It is likely that she has to go through the medical examinations as well. I am not residing in the states so I am not sure if there is such thing call confidential insurance for parents. You should check with the governing body for insurance industry in VA just to be sure. However, you can share with her your stress when you are dealing with your father's demise and ask her if she bear to let you go through this again? It is a hard fact that all of us will leave this world one day. Maybe you can highlight to her that if you have not done anything and it is possible that you may leave the world before she did, she will have to go through the same kind of stress. Then you share with her the things that you have done and explained that it is not the fear of death that you did this but it is for the love of the loved ones who are still around that make you do it. No matter how difficult it is, you will have to get it through to her but be sensitive and not too pushy. I had the same experience when my dad passed away 3 years ago. Good luck.

Question: how could one write this paragraph in our language? The relationship is conducive for building the trust of the client so that problems may be freely discussed. Psychotherapies aim at changing the maladaptive behaviours, decreasing the sense of personal distress, and helping the client to adapt better to her/his environment. Inadequate marital, occupational and social adjustment also requires that major changes be made in an individual’s personal environment. All psychotherapeutic approaches have the following characteristics : (i) there is systematic application of principles underlying the different theories of therapy, (ii) persons who have received practical training under expert supervision can practice psychotherapy, and not everybody. An untrained person may unintentionally cause more harm than any good, (iii) the therapeutic situation involves a therapist and a client who seeks and receives help for her/his emotional problems (this person is the focus of attention in the therapeutic process), and (iv) the interaction of these two persons — the therapist and the client — results in the consolidation/formation of the therapeutic relationship. This is a confidential, interpersonal, and dynamic relationship. This human relationship is central to any sort of psychological therapy and is the vehicle for change. All psychotherapies aim at a few or all of the following goals : (i) Reinforcing client’s resolve for betterment. (ii) Lessening emotional pressure. (iii) Unfolding the potential for positive growth. (iv) Modifying habits. (v) Changing thinking patterns. (vi) Increasing self-awareness. (vii) Improving interpersonal relations and communication. (viii) Facilitating decision-making. (ix) Becoming aware of one’s choices in life. (x) Relating to one’s social environment in a more creative and self-aware manner.

Answer: well did did write it. doesn't make a lot of sense to most, but if you're in the know of that kind of vocab i guess it's readable... but i agree, it's a head ache to understand!

Question: Confidential Marriage Green Card? I married my boyfriend an year ago and now we are planning to apply for my green card. As we both are young (21 years) we chose not to reveal the marriage to the public/family yet. So we had a California confidential marriage. As we both are students, we dont have any jobs yet. So I have stocks under my name abroad which are worth 100K$. Can I use them as my financial assets? Will there be a problem? We have many pictures together and we lived together for the past two years and we intent to stay together in the future too. So we have only pictures and rental agreement to prove our relationship. We have nothing else. Will it be a problem? Also, none of our parents know about the marriage. Can you tell me the potential problems that might occur in this case? I am an alien on F1 visa and my husband is an US citizen

Answer: Are both of your names on the rental agreement? If so that can be used. Did you both have mail sent to the same address at the place you guys rent? If so you can use those, even if they are not in both of your names, it will so same address. If you have cars and they are registered at the same address, use that. Basically any little scrap of proof that you guys lived at the same address for the last 2 yrs. Do you go to church? If so have the pastor or members of the church write a letter for you. Do you go with each other to the doctor? If so ask the doctor to write a letter. Ask friends who know the situation to write letters. Be creative. As long as you guys are in a real marriage, then you will be fine. During the interview they may ask some very personal questions, since the evidence is somewhat lacking. So be prepared. Yes you can use the stocks you have in your name as assets. Include as many photos as you can. Try to send some showing you guys with other people as well. That way they don't look staged. Good luck. I think you guys will be just fine. Belle

Question: Is going to counselling at a GP's practice confidential? I have been currently going to counselling this is my fourth time in the past three years with regard to relationship problems with my dad which started to deteriorate before my mum died and worsened after. I never got over her death and dont feel that I ever could. All this has taking its toll over me and where as before I could just get by with everything now its started to effect my job. I am constantly feeling emotionally and physically drained. My counsellor originally suggested me taking time off work which I shrugged off, wanted me to see my GP about some things of which someone else asked me to do - I dont feel comfortable doing this, as I feel could deal with my problems myself even though I am quickly realising that I cant do this for much longer. I dont need to be told to take up a hobby or interest - as I already did, I have been too tired to keep it up. I already took up a short course passed the first level went to do the 2nd level I was unable to complete it. I take myself out, I like company but I am more than happy to go out by myself but I still feel numb to everything in this life - I would love to have some feeling back in my life. I would love to feel something for everyone but at the moment I just dont feel that I care for anyone including myself. My counsellor has suggested me to go to counselling through my GP but is this really confidential?

Answer: It is completely confidential, UNLESS you're an active risk to yourself (have a plan to kill yourself, have taken an overdose, etc) or you're a risk to someone else. If the risk is immediate - they will generally call the police do have you detained for your own and/or other peoples safety, and if neccessary to arrange treatment. If the risk is not neccessarily immediate, they will get in contact with either social services or your mental health/crisis team. They will generally tell you that they have to breach confidential for your/other peoples safety. Another reason, which is very unlikely, but another reason they have to break confidentiality is if you admit to being associated with a terrorist group or have a plan to commit an act of terrorism. So if you were like "lol i'm gonna petrol bomb the shopping centre on Monday" they will obviously tell the police. But other than that.. it's confidential. Nothing you say can be passed on to someone or something else and be used against you, i.e. if you b!tched about your employer and thought s/he was horrible, they can't find out. Also if you self-harm, they won't tell anyone either unless it's serious. There was once a time where self-harm probably meant they would have you chucked in a psychiatric facility - but not now - its accepted as a stress release mechanism.

Question: Teen Relationship Hotline!!!!? If you are a teenager, would you or your fellow teen friends use a website that had advice for relationship issues just for teenagers? The website would have private, one-on-one e-mail conversations in which teens can ask personal questions about their own relationships and get a direct response to their e-mail inbox. After that, general questions that have been asked will be posted for others to see & answers to them will also be posted for other to see. No one's private information will be posted, however. Everything is confidential. WOULD YOU USE SOMETHING LIKE THAT? TEENS PLEASE LET ME KNOW!

Answer: I think that that is a great idea. Teens lives ARE drame. They need someone to share it with.

Question: TEENS!!! Would you use a Teen Relationship Hotline? If you are a teenager, would you or your fellow teen friends use a website that had advice for relationship issues just for teenagers? The website would have private, one-on-one e-mail conversations in which teens can ask personal questions about their own relationships and get a direct response to their e-mail inbox. After that, general questions that have been asked will be posted for others to see & answers to them will also be posted for other to see. Advice would come from me (20 years old; Psychology major in college) and fellow young adults I know who are also Psychology majors so they'll know about the mind and the way people think. We've all faced relationship problems in the past, so we'll give advice based off our own learning experiences & based off of things we've learned, asl well. No one's private information will be posted, however. Everything is confidential. WOULD YOU USE SOMETHING LIKE THAT? TEENS PLEASE LET ME KNOW!

Answer: I think that I would. I would if I had problems with someone and needed help with it. The site would have to be confidential.I hope that helps!!!!!!!