Bisexual

Question: Bisexual?!? I have a girlfriend. Most boys are very excited about that. Girls are to..But my friends are worried about me just going through this "phase" But I'm not, I really am Bisexual. I just really need help. Do you think that Being bisexual is abnormal. or should people just leave me alone?

Answer: I'm straight but really whats the difference if you like a girl or a boy its kinda like the difference between someone liking a prep or a punk. Its not that big of a deal, your still the same person and you can still be just as fun. Just tell them that you are who you are and you dont want to change that then tell them to deal with it

Question: BISEXUAL?!?!?!?!??!?!? ok im 19 (male) and ive always considered myself straight, ive always had crushes and romantic fantasies about girls when i was younger (still do) ive been checking girls out since 6th grade but ive never even thought about guys like that, i lost my v card to my ex girlfriend about a couple years ago and i enjoyed sex with her alot, i would get an erection just by sitting close to her, when we first started having sex i actually ejaculated way too early but i got over that, so its safe to say that i like girls, but i masturbate to gay fantasies more often than straight ones, i feel like if im going to fantasize why fantasize about something i already do, i got to the point where i was watching alot of gay porn but every time i go out into reality i dont look ay any guy thinking "i wanna hook up with him", i DONT really have the urge to bang a guy in real life however, so am i bisexual because honestly i can be ok with being bi i just dont wanna turn fully gay and then have to give up on girls, what do you think

Answer: Guys are part of your sexual fantasies, and you've seen no interest so far in making it a reality. Most people have far more wide-ranging fantasies than what they actually do, so this isn't something to get worried about. Even if you meet a guy that interests you in that way, no one is going to come up to you and tell you that you can't still enjoy being with women. You like girls. You have some fantasies about guys. You might be bi, you're probably straight, either way you're still OK.

Question: Can a bisexual person be more attracted to one gender than the other? Is it possible that a bisexual person may be more attracted to one gender over another, even though they still get feelings for both genders? Is it possible? Is it still called being a bisexual?

Answer: I think most bisexuals have a preference for one gender over another.

Question: What are your views on bisexual men, and women, independently? What are your views on bisexual men, and women, independently? What I mean is, What do you think of bisexual men? What do you think of bisexual woman?

Answer: Bisexual Men seem to be more curious, yet afraid to talk about it. Perhaps from fear of what there friends or family might think. In some ways society looks at two men together as being gross. A true bi-man is one who care less what others think and is more interested in find his own happiness. I say if you are a guy and think often about this type of topic then perhaps its best start taking your thought more serious and let your heart guide you. Bisexual Woman are ones who are more open minded compared to Men. Most have either already had or want to experience the feeling of a same-sex encounter. Plus I think bisexual women are more accepted in society. When people think of two woman together they think beauty. The important thing is be true to yourself and it will lead you to wonderful things. Either way being Bisexual is beautiful.

Question: How can a bisexual guy and a bisexual girl get married to each other ? Does it work out often ? I'm Straight and I had a friend who is a bisexual guy who met a bisexual girl and they are like meant for each other. They got married and had 4 children already in their 8 years of being married, they are both very faithful towards each other. How can they both be faithful towards each other if they are bisexual ?? No offense to the LGBT community, just curiosity.

Answer: Cuz they can be satisfied with either a male or female, being bi, and are monogamous. Though there's not much point in calling themsleves bisexual when they're in a monogamous opposite sex relationship and plan to stay that way, but whatever.

Question: What causes a bisexual person's degree of attraction between men and women to change? I've read it changes for some on a daily basis and that it can change over long intervals of time for others. For instance: one day they like like women a lot more than men, and the next day vice-versa. Are all bisexual people inconsistent with their range of attraction? Are there any that have a consistent spectrum their whole lives? And what causes this?

Answer: No, there are plenty of bisexual people out there who have a consistent range of attraction. Honestly, I doubt that there is an actual change in attraction. I think it's more of a preference change. I like vanilla and chocolate ice cream, but sometimes I just have a craving for chocolate. I don't like vanilla any less, but I prefer chocolate at that time.

Question: What are good websites to chat to bisexual/homosexual teens? I haven't come out yet and I feel the best way to gain confidence with my sexuality (bisexual) is to meet other bisexuals or homosexuals to chat to. Is there a good website that I could use? For example a popular forum website.

Answer: I think the best one is 321 Gay teen chat it's a very good one! I used this one my very first time coming out to people! Theres alot of people that are kinda dirty on there just ignore them and be like anyone wanna talk I wanna come out of the closet someone PM me that mean private message! get a my space or create a new one start talking to more gay teens and have fun! XOXO JB hope I helped out I know 321 gay teen chat gave me the confidence

Question: Where did those bisexual make friends, especialy some social sites? Am bisexual. Wanna make more bisexual friends, Where most bisexual love to be, especially for some social sites?

Answer: You could just Google it.

Question: Is there a difference between bisexual men and bisexual women? And no, I don't mean physically. Is there a difference in the way bisexual men are attracted to both genders and the way bisexual women are?

Answer: In my opinion that is dependant on the individuals in guestion, their homonal metabolism, personal experiences, etc. and may range in extremes on a case by case basis. It is my opinion that a given individual may even vary in 'gayness' over the period of their lifetime as influences like those previously mentioned vary. I also think that if you were to be able to measure gayness and asign a number value to the 'possessing of the characteristic' or phenotype, You would likely find the value would change when comparing a random collection of individuals. These are just some of my thoughts.

Question: What is the best way to find a bisexual girlfriend online? Im actually trying to suprise a friend and I need help. Shes bisexual and shes looking for a girlfriend. So, if you know any sites whe he could find a bisexual "friend" then that would be awesome.

Answer: http://www.true.com

Question: How do I approach my bisexual friend about my bisexuality? I was childhood friends with a girl who I now discovered is bisexual. It's been about 4 years since we talked, but have recently started talking again and i have feelings for her. How do i approach her about my bisexuality without making it awkward?

Answer: well...if she's bi and you're bi...then it shouldn't be weird. She might like you too. I'm bi but I don't have anyone that's bi near me. If i liked one of my friends and they were bi...then i would just go up and tell them that i had feelings for them. It shouldn't be odd if she's bi too! Don't be afraid, go for it! If anything, all she can say is that she just wants to be friends. Good Luck!

Question: How many straight women pose as bisexual to attract misguided men? A true bisexual woman to me is one who actually has full sex with another woman. Some women find other women attractive, but considering the amount of time and money women put into their appearance, that is no surprise.

Answer: it is very common in teenagers, not very common in older women. the correct term for them is (last time i checked) a lipstick lesbian (meaning they only ever kiss).

Question: How can a bisexual girl and a bisexual guy get married ? Does it work out often ? I'm Straight and I had a friend who is a bisexual guy who met a bisexual girl and they got married, they are like meant for each other. They are married for almost 8 years and they have 4 children, all daughters and they are trying to go on the 5th child. They are both very faithful towards each other. His wife is a fashion freak. How can they be faithful towards each other if they are bisexual ???

Answer: They are bi, not gay! They still like the opposite sex as well and seem commited to each other. That is all that matters especially with kids in the picture.

Question: Are bisexual people shunned by the gay community in terms of dating? Like do lesbians shun bisexual women and gay guys shun bisexual guys? So, all that's left to do is hook up with other bisexuals?

Answer: Unfortunately, there is a bias against bisexuals in the gay and lesbian communities. It's a shame that people who are so discriminated against by the larger society, do the same sort of thing to a minority in their own community. You might be right about only dating other bisexuals, but don't give up completely on gays and lesbians. There might be that special someone out there for you in the LGBT community...

Question: How can I tell if a girl I like is bisexual or not? She currently has a boyfriend (I'm hoping they'll break up though), but she could still be bisexual, a lot of things about her make me think she might possibly be, but that might just be wishful thinking. I'm attracted to her, don't know what to do about it, I've tried to push it down but it's not possible. What should I do? And how can I tell whether or not someone is bisexual or not?

Answer: There's really no way to tell on your own without asking; you may notice she has certain personality traits common with other people who are bisexual but so do a lot of straight girls. It's good you've realized wishful thinking might be playing a role here, there's a term called self-serving bias which means we see what we want to see. The best advice I'd give you is to just be her friend. Don't break up a relationship, or do anything while she's with her boyfriend - who's to say she won't do that to you when you two get together - because relationships built on mistrust never last. Best wishes.

Question: What's the difference between being bisexual & hetero sexual with feeling for the other gender? Where's the line between being bisexual & having romantic feelings 4 the opposite gender while still being hetero?

Answer: The difference is identical to that between some and none.

Question: How can bisexual people commit themselves to a person in marriage if they like two different sexes? For instance, if a bisexual person likes both men and women, who do they choose to marry, men or women? I mean, unless if you're a polygamist, you can only marry one person, so what sex do you choose, or do you not end up getting married at all?

Answer: You don't choose based on sex, you choose based on the individual person. After that point, I think it can be hard at times whether you have a monogamous relationship or not. I believe in monogamy, but I'll admit that there are times that I really miss having a relationship with a woman. I personally feel though that it's best to just let those times pass, I have seen nothing but heartache ensue out of open marriages and I have no intention of dealing with those complications myself. Cheating is cheating, whether it is consensual or not. I believe that if ones body is on the market than so is their heart. My husband understand this as well as I do. He also made a choice to marry someone who he knew would occasionally have pangs that he could not satisfy(being a man) and he patiently allows me to openly express this without judgment and without suggestions on how it can be "fixed". I find that once I get it off my chest it all passes very quickly and I can get back to truly and fully enjoying the man that I love with all my heart and soul.

Question: Is a bisexual nymphomaniac any different from a heterosexual or gay nymphomaniac? From what I read about nymphomaniacs, they are so hypersexual and sexually promiscuous, that they become "genderqueer" and do not care with whom they have sex with. This is in the case of a monosexual nymphomaniac, so would it be any different from a bisexual nymphomaniac? Does the nymphomania act on a different realm than one's sexual orientation?

Answer: I'll try and find a straight nimph I find attractive, and see what happens. this sounds like fun.

Question: Husbands of bisexual women: How does her orientation fit into your marriage? This is NOT for people to come and rant about their own personal views on bisexuality, nor having a bisexual spouse. I will block/report all offensive/rude answerers/comments. Thank you in advance.

Answer: I'm a bisexual woman, my first marriage was 14 years with a woman, now have been with my husband 2 years. My orientation is just that, an orientation. It doesn't affect my behavior. I'm extremely monogamous 'til death do us part. Sometimes there will be a girl on TV that we both find cute and we laugh about it. But that's really the only time it comes up. My husband realizes that I have the capability of being in love with someone of either gender. It isn't threatening to him and he totally gets it, for which I'm grateful. I think many people assume if you're bisexual that you actively have sex with people of both genders, which obviously is not true. There are people like that, but that's open marriage, which is a separate issue from sexual orientation.

Question: How do people feel towards bisexual people? I am a bisexual girl, and I haven't decided if I want to tell people. What do people both guys and girls think of bisexual people and why ?

Answer: You'll probably get different answers inside and outside of the gay community. Unlike a lot of lesbians, I have no problem with bisexual girls. There is sort of a stigma, at least in the LGBT community, against bisexuals. Not all bisexuals, but the reason is that a LOT of women (particularly in the younger/less mature) crowd say that they are "bisexual" as an excuse to 1) make out with girls at parties but date men; 2) experiment with the same team and then go back to dating men; 3) feel "cool" and edgy; 4) when they are in a "bad place" after a breakup and date a woman, and then go back to dating men once they've healed. Not ALL bisexuals are this way and honestly, if somebody is truly bisexual, they love both sexes (equally or unequally). Where you get into sticky territory like the statements I listed above most often seem to be high school and college, when people (mostly girls) aren't really sure about their sexuality and are too quick to label themselves despite the fact that maybe they aren't actually into girls. For that reason, a lot of lesbians stay away from bisexual girls, because they haven't "committed" to liking girls, and there always feels like there is that chance that they could ditch you for a guy. That's sort of the mentality: bisexual girls are heartbreakers. However, if you are with a TRUE BISEXUAL, that shouldn't be the case. That's where it gets down to it: stereotyping bisexual people gets us all nowhere, because we're not dating a sexuality, we're dating people. One bad experience with a girl who called herself bi doesn't mean that all bi girls are liars. It gets easy to think that way, which is fairly sad. So, if you come out as bi, you can expect a lot of out-lesbians to maybe stay away from you a little bit, until you get older, since there is that stereotype. It's sad, especially if you are not one of those girls that fits those above "not really bisexual" cases, but you have Katy Perry and all of her "I got drunk and kissed a girl and now I call myself bi!" friends to thank for that.