Biological Father

Question: What is the easiest way to get my daughters biological father to sign over his rights? I have a 8 month old daughter. Her biological father has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant. He is not on the birth certificate. I left him due to him being an alcoholic... proof (he was arrested for DWI). I want to get him to sign over his rights, but I don't want to pay a lawyer's fee. What is the cheapiest and easiest way to do this?

Answer: Go to the County Court and fill out/file the necessary paper work. There is a filing fee. If he doesn't contest it, you are home free. If he does, you will need a lawyer. The Clerk can advise on the forms, but not on the data.

Question: Can I enlist in the air force without information on my biological father? My recruiter seems to be having trouble with my lack of information on my biological father. Any loop holes? I have the name of who might possibly be my biological father but nothing else.

Answer: Question. Are you under the Age of 18. If so then you need authorization from both parents to enlist even if your father has no custody over you. If you are over 18 then you shouldn't need any info on him at all.

Question: How common is it for a woman to lie to a man about the biological father of her child? The topic is raised here with alarming frequency, and since I have personal knowledge of one case, I am curious to know how often this situation actually occurs. I know a woman who was married and got pregnant by man outside of the marriage. She is now divorced, but the ex-husband thinks the baby is his, pays child support and gets his legal visitation. The actual biological father does know he has a child, but keeps his distance so as not to screw up the current child support arrangement (it benefits the biological father , since he’s not the one paying). I do not know whether the biological father gets any visitation (or indeed if he wants any). I’d like to see any kind of evidence, anecdotal or empirical, to indicate whether this is a growing trend or just the topic of sensational gossip.

Answer: Robinson; true, approximately 30% of contested cases result in the finding that "dad", isn't. In one jurisdiction, unwed fathers were encouraged by OCSE (office of child support enforcement) to request DNA analysis before agreeing to paternity; those results were 50%. Other studies of intact families show from 14-20% of the time, the father is not related to what he thinks are 'his children'. Still, what are the actual national average percentages? No one actually knows. One article I read on this stated that such research could and probably would tend to destabilize many, many families. For this reason, it has become a political problem that many want to simply ignore. The implications of what it would mean in the rather large arena of child support is one thing but when one thinks that up to 20% or more of 200,000,000 million people were not kin to their father... the mind boggles. One would think this to be of some matter of importance and I think DNA should be ordered conducted on every child born in the US as a matter of course. Many men would not consider asking for one due to the problems encountered by the fact that doing so is tantamount to suspecting his wife/girlfriend is lying or unfaithful. According to what is known, all men should and let the chips fall where they may. What happens to women who perpetuate such fraud? Actually, not much, if anything at all. The second link below is a story about a woman who used elaborate means to create a child that didn't in fact, exist. When discovered, she was ordered to repay the "father" for child support she scammed from him and the state of New Mexico found her guilty of filing a false tax return. So far, the only jail time she has been sentenced to (16 months) is for defrauding the state, which will probably be all she will receive.

Question: What Age is the minimum to petition my biological father? I'm only 13 and becomes a us citizen by 2010(or my mom becomes a citizen first '2010 also'), and my biological father is still in the Philippines at what minimum and or legal age do i have to be or can be to petition him here in the US?

Answer: , I believe you have to be at least 14 years of age, although I don't know the difference between a citizen of the U.S. and a non citizen though hope that helps some, Peace

Question: Seriously, is there anyone who thinks Michael Jackson is the biological father of those kids? I just saw the Grammy Awards, and Michael Jackson's kids made an appearance. Now, I know "there's more than one kind of family". I'm not saying Jacson didn't care for the kids, or that he wasn't their father in every other sense of the word, but come on. I'll grant you there's an outside chance "Blanket" could be Michael Jackson's biological son, but those two older kids were obviously conceived when white met bread. Does anyone really believe he fathered those children at this point? Okay, I know this will come as a shock to everyone, but I have a fairly good education in genetics and biology. So, I did as suggested and went back to look at pictures of Michael as a boy as well as the best picture I could find of Debbie Rowe, and compared them to the pictures of the two Princes from the Grammy awards. I can see a resemblance between the younger Prince and Michael Jackson. However... the older Prince has neither Jackson's skin nor hair. While it is possible for mixed race children to look completely caucasian, it is exceptionally rare that they do. In addition, Prince's eyebrows do not resemble either Michael's or Debbie's, nor does his nose, nor does the shape of his mouth, nor does his chin. The shape of his ears also appears to be somewhat different, though they're partially obscured by his hair. That so many physical features would be dissimilar to both his mother and father is improbable in the extreme. Were I a betting man, I would place good money that Prince inherited those physical traits from a third party.

Answer: Before I answer that, I just want to say that I think that MJ was a loving father to those children and he raised them to be what looks like good well mannered kids. BUT, ... they look too much like that Arnie guy one of his doctors! I mean the two oldest look just like him! And that has been mentioned in the tabloids, and the guy never really did deny it when I saw him on TV that he was the biological father. He just said that they were Michael's kids. And they are. Just like if you adopt kids, they are yours. I am an MJ fan from way back, and I really couldn't wrap my mind around MJ and the nurse Debbie having kids together. It was like why her of all people? And then MJ seemed like he was 'A-sexual'. I don't even believe that him and Lisa had sex. Then I read about these doctors and friends of his who said that he had asked them to be a donor for him. So now I'm left with a big hmm ...? Those kids look like Arnie that's all I'm saying, And if he is the biological father, wow. That would be like a surrogate mother selling her eggs, or carrying a baby then giving it up. To most people, that would be a hard thing to do.

Question: How do I start the process of involuntarily terminating the parental rights of my daughter's biological father? I am just wondering if anyone has any idea on how this process works? Any advise or tips would be helpful. My daughter has not seen her biological father in 5 years. I have no idea where he is or what he's doing. The courts granted me with full custody shortly after she was born and he had supervised visitation that he rarely ever went to, nothing has been changed ever since and that was almost 9 years ago.

Answer: If he has not made contact with her in five years he has abandoned her. If you follow my source link it has a check list. If he has paid child support regularly it will be harder,but if you can prove he hasn't maintained a relationship with her,you should be able to get a judge to terminate his rights.

Question: How can i help my boyfriend find his biological father? My boyfriend wants to find his biological father. He doesn't know much about him because he never met him. All he knows is what his biological mom has said and what his adopted mom has told him. We have his full name on my boyfriend's birth certificate but that's about it. We dont have money or anything so is there anyway we can find him on a free website? Or maybe a genealogy website? Any information helps!

Answer: My brother was in the same situation, what he did was look through all of the phone books of all the different states, and he called, or wrote letters to all the people he found with names that matched the one he was looking for. It took him a long time, but he was determined. Eventually he found his father's sister who gave him info on how to contact his father. He contacted him and was told that he never wanted to meet him, and didn't want to hear from him again. I considered not adding that last part, but decided I should because I thought it would be useful to know that the outcome might not be as expected. Good luck.

Question: What are the only things that can deny me my rights as the biological father? I am about to file for a motion to modify my divorce decree. The state allows me, the biological father, visitation rights with my child. The standard package that I want is: Every other weekend Every other major holiday Every other summer I have no criminal record I have no domestic violence record I have no drug/alcohol abuse record So, what legally can deny me my rights to gain the above visitation package?

Answer: I will assume there is no child endangerment or abuse record as well. I would think the only thing a judge might need confirmation on is the state of your home (decent etc) and your child care arrangements when the child is with you.

Question: How would I go about finding mi biological father and other family members? When I was 8 my biological mother gave me to my grandparents, signed over parental rights and then took my bio father to court to make him relinquish. He did. I'm now 24 with a child of my own and want to find him. How would I go about doing this, and where should I look? Serious answers only thanks I know his name and all of his information, I have looked in all the states that I am aware he lived in. I belive he is unlisted soI tried to find his sister and that also went no where. He wasn't born in the us. He is from Nigeria. I don't know if he still lives in the us or if I need to look elsewhere.

Answer: Put your details on registries - everywhere - you just never know. Also try people search data bases - google his name - anything you can try. Here's some places I usually advise to start searching (you're very lucky you have his full name) First - add your details to the registries here - http://www.isrr.net/ http://registry.adoption.com/ (also look for local state and country registries – beware of those that ask for money) Check for searching information here - http://www.bastards.org/library/search.htm Check here for search help - and links to search angels - http://www.adoptioncrossroads.org/ And check here for any support - it's the best online forum for adoptees I've found - http://www.adultadoptees.org/ (pop in and ask for more help here - there are some great searchers that visit this site) All the very best with your search.

Question: Can someone get on Cash-Aid even if they are already receveing Child Support from the Biological father? There is a family of 3 people. The mother, child, and mother's boyfriend. Both adults have been laid off and are unemployed. The biological father of the child pays about $500 of monthly child support. Will this family be eligible to receive Cash Aid?

Answer: If the family receives cash aid, they will no longer get the child support. Any child support payments will go to reimburse tax payers for the welfare being paid out for the child. You don't get both and when you get cash assistance for a child, you sign any child support over to the state.

Question: are there any free websites that can offer help to me finding my biological father? I have been looking for my biological father for a while and I can't seem to find a site where I can find him, if anyone can find a free website for me that would be greatly appreciated! Thank you so much.

Answer: These are just a few of the many useful links that are helpful to adoptees in trying to locate their birth parents. They are in no particular order. http://www.cyndislist.com/adoption.htm http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~rwguide/lesson31.htm http://genealogy.about.com/od/adoption/Adoption_Resources_for_Your_Family_Tree.htm http://www.essortment.com/lifestyle/adoptionadoptee_scdu.htm http://khuish.tripod.com/ http://www.genealogicaljourneys.com/missings.htm If you already know his name we can't help you trace living people because in genealogy, we research our ancestors but sometimes you can find people on Facebook and MySpace. If that fails try: http://find.person.superpages.com/ http://www.anywho.com/ http://www.zabasearch.com/ If they own property or have recently sold property, some states property tax records are online and a few states have probate records online. You will be able to find little else online. There are companies that specialize in background checks to screen potential employees for companies that could be helpful in locating someone or you could hire a private detective.

Question: How do I find the surname of my father's biological father? I have a deep interest in genealogy, and I can't find a way to discover my true surname. My father was adopted and hasn't contacted his biological parents (that I know of). I don't know their fates, but I would really like to know how to at least figure out what my grandfather's surname was. Thank you for your answers. :)

Answer: As adoption laws vary from country to country.I would suggest you contact your local Government agency, Adoptions section. They will be able to tell you if your right to know what you seek is permissible in your area. As you are a direct relation you may be able to find the information you seek. As you only want to know the name this may make it all the easier.

Question: Can a non biological father be named on a birth certificate? Just doing some necessary research. i was wondering if someone had not filled out the father on the child's birth certificate, could they later add a non biological fathers name?

Answer: Yes, a non-biological father can be named on a birth certificate. Literally speaking they don't preform DNA tests to see who's child it is. So anyone who your mother claimed was the father could be on the certificate.

Question: Vin Is it possible to have different physical feature than your own biological father? Vin Is it possible to have different physical feature than your own biological father?

Answer: Of course - you may not look anything like either of your parents!!!

Question: Do I have any rights to prove that my biological father is my father through dna testing.? I'm a 35 year old male who has been trying to seek medical and family history from my biological father who denies me. I have been trying to seek this info since the age of 16. I know the privacy act law states I don't have the right to seek anyones medical history. Could I sue for paternity to prove he's my biological father? What rights do I have in this type of situation?

Answer: NO

Question: Where can I find my biological father absolutely free? I am 13 years old, and I am suspicious. My mom said that my dad was named Jason, but then she told me that the dad I am living with now is my biological father, who is named Willis. I think my real dad is Jason, but I don't know his last name, I cannot PAY ANY MONEY, and I can't let my mom know that I am trying to find my biological father. I have been looking for hours, and would like some help! Thank you.

Answer: sorry sweetie but without a full name its pretty hard. if you had a full name i could probably help you.. but i must say its very unfair of your mum to name 2 dads.. she either isn't sure or doesn't want to tell but you have the right to know..

Question: Can I legally force my biological father to a blood test? My biological father denies being related to me and I want nothing more than to see his face when DNA proves I am his. I have never met the man due to his neglect. I am 17 years old and turn 18 in April if being a minor changes anything.

Answer: If a paternity action is filed (i.e. for child support purposes), then he can be forced to take a paternity test.

Question: In the absence of a biological father, can a step father be considered the legal guardian of a 19 year old? The 19 year old's father left the country is not coming back. The 19 year old is claimed as a dependent on her step father's and biological mother's taxes. Can the step father be considered the 19 year old's legal guardian? NOTE* The married couple (step father and mother) file taxes jointly.

Answer: Being claimed on taxes is considered differently than whether you are an adult or not. Dependent for tax purposes means financially dependent. Even elderly parents can be claimed as dependent if the child is providing for more than 50% of their expenses. You are an adult, yes! Dependent, can be, if they provide 50% plus of all your expenses.

Question: how do i find out if my biological father had a will? My biological father passed away when i was 7. I never knew him but ever since I turned 18 his family, who was never around and i never knew any of them, keeps hackling me for a DNA test to prove he's my father. I want to know if he had a will and if there is something in there that makes them so interested in my relation to him. It never mattered before. Why does it matter now?

Answer: Call the clerk of the probate court in the county in which he lived when he died. (That is, if he lived in Beloit and was eaten by a shark in Hawaii, call the clerk in Wisconsin.) If he had one, you can probably buy a copy for $35 - $100. I will pass on the rest of the questions.

Question: Can a non-biological father get visitaion and rights to a child that is not his? My husband and I are going through a divorce and he is not my daughters biological father. He signed the paternity affidavit at the hospital because in two weeks we were going to be married. We were not married at the time of her birth, and he is seeking full custody. Can anybody shed some light on this situation for me please??????

Answer: The above advice is pretty good - you should consult a competent attorney in your state. However, as a general rule, courts try to maintain family relationships, even if not biological. The rule of thumb in most states is "what is in the best interest of the child." Your state will certainly have its own take on it and its own rules... however, you should also be aware that if the father is on the birth certificate and/or signed an affidavit at the time and you're only now contesting it, you're quite likely to have a problem.