Devoted Spouse

Question: Is it possible to cheat on your spouse without feeling guilty? Assume that you have a very good, honest, devoted spouse who loves you more than anything... But there's someone else that you are completely in lust with, and it would be nothing but sex - it would only happen once. Is it really possible to have sex with the lust partner without feeling guilty? Even if your spouse never finds out? Has anyone ever done this without regretting it?

Answer: YEAH ITS POSSIBLE, POSSIBLE BUT HORRIBLE. Take it from me, once a cheater always a cheater. I don't have a guilty conscience at all; I never feel guilty after what I do, but i've also never been in a marriage, and thats really, really f-ed up because you married that person because of that. So boyfriend-girlfriends, yes its possible and somewhat okay, spouses, hell no Oh, and 'it'll only happen once' - yeah, right

Question: Are you satisifed with the amount of time you and your spouse spend together? How many days a week to you spend with your spouse? Do you feel your spouse devotes enough time to you? Do you feel your spouses job takes priority over you ever?

Answer: 7 Yes With rare exception, but I understand if he needs to work. He puts me as a priority and I put him as mine too.

Question: If so many people say that they're totally devoted to their spouse, why is it that so many get cheated on? I watch person after person on here say that they would never cheat on their spouse, but also see person after person ask how to HANDLE a cheating spouse. ... I DO find it hard to believe that only non-cheaters are on Yahoo! Answers. How many people do you think are full of it when they say that they would never cheat, if given the right set of circumstances?

Answer: I personally think MOST people would cheat under "the right circumstances". A combination of deterioration of their marriage, their personal moral standards, and their spouse. That doesn't make it right......

Question: Can anyone flirt and yet be devoted to his/her spouse at the same time?

Answer: No, I don't think so.

Question: What's the best way to have an infant and a devoted, attentive, loving dog? Breeds, training and advice? This is basically a theoretical, planning-ahead sort of question. I don't have a spouse, a house and can't get another dog at the moment. But many people on here and elsewhere say that having a dog when you have an infant isn't a good idea. I agree, but I also see so many stories about babies growing up with wonderful, protective dogs. If I ever have a kid, I definitely want a dog that is so devoted and so protective of him. The kind you read stories about... shielding the kid from the fall-off of the balcony, protecting the baby from rattlesnakes, that babies learn to walk holding on to... So... if you wanted a dog like this and didn't have a kid yet, what would be your strategy? I realize having a baby and puppy at the same time isn't a good idea. But if you get a dog a year or two before the baby... What breeds would you think are the best choices for infants? What kind of training would you do before the baby came (like, before the baby was even created)? If you're giving suggestions for breeds, I prefer rarer breeds. Just a personal preference, but I'd be more interested in breeds that aren't in the top 10 or even top 20 or 30 maybe. A few breeds I've thought might be a good fit include Greater Swiss Mountain Dogs and American Foxhounds. But I haven't done extensive research. These are just two breeds I've come across in my reading that seem like good fits.

Answer: Hi... I understand your rationale. My husband and I decided to get a puppy first. She is now 10-months old. We are hoping to get pregnant before the end of the year... so the dog would be about 2 when baby arrives. I agree with you about not having a puppy and baby at the same time. Some people say that puppies are actually more work than babies! The benefits of doing it this way are... 1) At age of 2 the dog is starting to settle down and mature 2) Dog has been through some training classes and is fairly obedient 3) Dog has the opportunity to meet and be exposed to other young children and babies. A few weeks ago we introduced our pup to our friends' 8-month old and it went well. If we come across people with infants and other small children, I never bring the puppy up to them I always let THEM initiate contact. If they ask to pet her I put her in a down position and make sure I am right over her in case she gets too rambunctious. We got a Golden Retriever puppy b/c of their reputation as good, gentle family dogs. Obviously it is not a rare breed... but we are very happy with her and think she will do very well with a baby when the time comes. Of course it is absolutely imperative that ANY dog around ANY young child be monitored EXTREMELY closely! Newfoundlands are also supposed to be extremely good with children and are a bit more rare than Goldens.

Question: Life Poll No 3: "A Gorgeous but unfaithful spouse" OR "An ugly but devoted one"?

Answer: Is 'no spouse and many one night stands' an option? If not, ugly and devoted (as long as he is good in bed) xxx

Question: Are fans really devoted and loyal no matter what a star do or say? I notice a lot of fans still love a celebrity no matter what he or she does. Even if she/he abuses the spouse, use racial slurs, acts perverted, people will still love them. Who agrees with me? Seriously, if I was a handsome celebrity, I can say something perverted, abuse girlfriends/wives, and I will still have female fans no matter what.

Answer: Depends really - I love Pete Doherty's music. it's absolutely amazing and he's had some of the best concerts i've ever been to. He's also a total jake ball junkie. I really don't care that he's a junkie, because he still belts out great tunes.

Question: What do you love about your spouse/ partner/ lover? I love how devoted my wife is to our family! How beautiful she is. How sincere her emotions are. She's fun-loving, caring and hardworking. What about you? What do you appreciate about the person you're with?

Answer: I love how my boyfriend is always there for me, I love how he supports me, how he makes me smile all the time being around with him, I love his personality, I love how he makes me think of the future instead of the past. I love him with all my heart. Ahh making me miss him him.

Question: What characteristic about spouse how to choice? Hi all, What characteristic about spouse how to choice? For spouse smart, beautiful, caring, nice body, responsible, dependable, respectful, sensitive, devoted to, quiet, humorious, cooperative, supportive, problem solving skills, reasonable, patient, social, saving-uses money carefully, good parent, ethical...etc. Maybe a perfect wife could be... domestically skilled, cheery, reliable,...etc. A great husband could be... sharing/ jeneious, educated independent, self-made, maybe rich, strong chracter, puntual, ambitions, sexual, good family, romatic, kind, talkative, age,...etc. Please talk about your opinions, suggestions, or ideals! Thank you!

Answer: The wife liked me...She said cause of my black hair and brown eyes. I enjoyed doing the things she liked.. liked horse back riding, dancing, going to the movies...she liked my sence of humor, my caring ways and for not being lazy. I fell in love with her Smile and those bright eyes.. ...I liked her long legs...and how hard she tried to apply her self at every thing she trys...I love her laugh..and her helpful ways...there is to much I enjoy and love about her to write..

Question: Serious Question: What do you think about the morality of "online marriages"? Here's the story: http://pewforum.org/news/display.php?New… No offense but I think an "online marriage" is completely stupid. If you can't even physically be there to sign a piece of paper with the person you're spending the rest of your life with, you probably won't make a very devoted spouse anyway. It sounds really cheap and gimmicky, too.

Answer: Well, I can agree that it's pretty ridiculous, but at least the couple in the article had actually met and been together - even produced a child together. I figure the human race is already so wacky that e-marriage is not all that out there - although it's not something I particularly would care to experience. So, I guess whatever floats your boat. Re: the morality - I guess if someone's the cheatin' sort it isn't gonna matter what type of relationship it is (live and in person, or online). Edit - (((Dana))) - Oh, I know... and I'm all for fun! (((Eartha))) - good points! (((Brian))) - I never proposed to you... well, not in the marriage sense of proposal! hahaha. (((Samian))) good question, buddy.

Question: During your first marriage (for those who have been divorced) can you honestly say? You were A devoted spouse A supportive spouse A romantic spouse A loving spouse

Answer: I would have to say yes. It is not my fault that her pants kept falling down in front of other men.

Question: If the bible said you weren't allowed to kiss anyone, even your spouse, would you follow it? i am wondering if there are people who are devoted to what the Bible says.

Answer: I guess I'm your only answer. it's just a book....

Question: What support can you give to a friend whose spouse is dying? The wife of a very close friend of mine has inoperable cancer. she is undergoing Chemo and is reacting badly. the prognosis is only a year or two at best. what suport can I offer? He is understandably devasted. I know him better than I know her because I worked with him for years. I am so worried about him. he is devoting himself to her 100% as you would expect and has put his life on hold. I fear some friends will drift away. I want to stay firm and loyal but don't want to impose. I just want him to know he has support if he needs it.. any suggestions?

Answer: Depending on the way you two communicate, tell him or write him what you posted: "I want you to know that I would like to support you as much as I can but I do not want to impose". Call him regularly, ask if you can pop by for a minute, offer casually some practical help (I am on my way to the shop, can I bring you something, offer to walk the dog, babysit the kids, "I fancy a drink, would you come with me for a while", whatever you think might help or relax him), ask news from his wife (not in a "I-am-sooooooo-sorry" way -if you have said once that you are sorry, it is enough-, but ask about the last trip to hospital, how is she feeling today, is she in pain, whatever). If you are genuinely concerned, that will come accross. Next thursday, I am visiting a friend who is under chemo. My first contact with him was that: texted him I am sorry to hear that. Second, I left messages several times to contact him. Third I spoke to him and asked specific, practical, mature questions. I offered to come and see him (he is not allowed to leave his house, because of low immune system). I will bring him some very natural stuff to boost his immune system (lemon, ginger and honey!). And I will have tea with him. And that it is. Whether you are the one under treatment or the spouse, what you need is just people's availability + also to feel "normal". I suppose. That is the best I can come up with. All the best to you. (PS: do not expect him to ask for support until his has had enough opportunities to see you really m e a n to help)

Question: Am I wrong for not believing people when they say they're devoted to their kids but have cheated on their? spouse? How can anyone who's really devoted to their kids help destroy their family through adultery? "Committing adultry has nothing to do with the children..."? You are some of the most selfish people in the WORLD! How disgusting! See "This Crazy Life's" answer for some truth! You think knowing/seeing your parent willingly hurt his/her spouse just to get their groove on wouldn't hurt you? Or alter how you view yourself and affect your own future romantic relationships?! If nothing else, having a cheating parent serves as a model for how you will eventually act as an adult in your own relationships. Kids learn by observation, you know. Not happy in marriage? Just cheat your way out of it! No need to WORK on your marriage, not therapy, no talking it out, just sleep around! GREAT IDEA! I really hope some of you people aren't married with kids.

Answer: I don't think your wrong. If they were devoted to their children, they wouldn't have caused such pain to their mom/dad and in turn causing pain to them. Cheating breaks up the home and deprives the children of having a two parent household (which I think every kid deserves)...which is not in the kid's best interest. So, no I don't believe I would call that person devoted to their children!!!

Question: How do you measure personal success? Is, {for arguments sake}, the billionare celebrity who's family life is in tatters to be envied more than the devoted family man or woman who has raised well adjusted children, and has a meaningful relationship with his/her spouse, but who lives a simple unassuming life?

Answer: Jesus will give you purpose and meaning! =D Jesus is God and the only way into heaven. Please pray a sincere prayer with all of your heart admitting to Jesus you are a sinner. Have full faith that His blood pays off all of your sins and accept His gift of everlasting life. I pray that God blesses you with peace. Amen.

Question: Why do men cheat more than women? In relationships? It seems like women are completely devoted to their spouse,but some men will run to any younger,prettier girl they can get

Answer: Guys are vision they guide themselves for what they see, and women are audio they go for what they listen. En because in America men are not legally allow to married more then one woman .Plus when things are prohibited we are more tempted to do it. In because there are more women than guys, if count all things going on with men you will find out that many guys go to war ,they are homosexual beggars drank Criminals in jail and all these guy. They don't count as someone that any woman would like to married. So the number of males became less than women. Any where you go you see more women than guys.I believe that is the reason guys are more cheaters. A lots women not enough males And if in America were allow that males can legally married 2 or 3 wives the number of cheaters will be reduce but in America we are no educated to live under Polygamy and accept that our husband can have another wife, in the sadness thing is that men does it any way. Most women know it but it is hard to admitted, you really need to have a very highly understanding about that particular subject. Another reason are dissatisfaction Unhappiness,lack of moral values, no priprinciples. Everyone has their own reason .

Question: What grade would you give me for this essay? Why do adults play a vital role in the young peoples’ lives? The reason is fairly simple. Adults, possessing an established position, may guide or help the youths to their state. The most influential qualities I admire from grown-ups are their responsibility, experience, and demeanor. In numerous courses of subjects, responsibility may be an essential requirement for success. This quality is found in adults relating to occupations and relationships. In terms of occupation, adults maintain their jobs by presenting to work on time or displaying performance on the subject. Through relationships, grown-ups are devoted to family life such as nurturing their children and remaining attached to one spouse. Additionally, the mature possess responsibility for numerous reasons. For one reason may be the desire to uphold a structured and positive life. Another explanation is to avoid consequences that may develop when no responsibility is provided to certain subjects. Thus, this ability is highly inspirational. With experience, the certainty of functioning tasks may develop. Since adults have obtained more years of life and education compared to youths, adults may have higher experience levels than youngsters. Having experience, adults can complete tasks easily since knowledge serves as their backbone. Without experience, one may become confused of how to solve something. This quality may take time to grow, but there are countless ways to achieve experience. One way is to receive schooling, which provides academic knowledge. Another way is by getting involved, such as helping the community. When this quiddity is achieved, one may reveal the characters of an adult. Lastly, a developed demeanor is often displayed from an adult. Their behaviors are highly influential to youths because of multiple reasons. The mature usually display a disciplined manner, having the ability to control actions and hold restraints. Additionally, being well mannered is found in most adults where they present politeness and respect. It is necessary to have a positive demeanor because it supplies to many fields. In public, for example, a developed demeanor will succeed in terms of communication. People will be able to interact without causing situations of negative behavior. As a result, youths are highly recommended to learn from grown-ups. Adults are influential to the younger generations’ lives. They possess qualities of responsibility, experience, and demeanor, which is important that youths learn from them. Without adults guiding young people, consequences may form resulting to irresponsibility, uncertainty, and immaturity. SCORING!!!! 1 point=lowest 6 pints=highest

Answer: You have some unclear sentences and questionable modifiers, so I'd probably say a 3 or 4.

Question: how to trust spouse after discovering an online flirting coverup? so my completely trustworthy husband, devoted person is caught exchanging chats, emails unexpectedly by a unsuspectring spouse. the chats indicate the girl is flirting and he gives "familar" vibes and when confronted he says he was just jocking with this person. anyways i have posted this earlier ( the story) however tell me how does one re-build a relatinship from here. have a child 5 yrs old..when we are happy and trusting and i am not stressed he blossoms and when not he is severly impacted ( they sense the tension) i am asian and have seen good working marriages - well on the face. what measures can i take to trust in this relationship. one thing i have done or has happened is i have lowered the bar and expectation . ofcourse if another episode were to happen it would be hard but there never was a confession so i am not even sure what happened. it can drive you nuts. Please advice - willing to work on the relationship as person is not bad just was careless or ? How does one protect oneself from hurt. As a spouse it is never the perfect marriage but how do people protect themselves from hurt...especially when they want to make things work for family. Although my ego wanted to walk out(for the sheer fact my so loving tiffanys kind a guy tells this woman "queen of patience" , "my dear" totally unacceptable to a wife i think) kids cause you amazing changes. Thanks in advance.

Answer: Install spyware

Question: Should we just name dating the USA national religion? The way dating goes now days people love their significant other more than they love their god. They (if you will) "worship" their spouse much more than they worship whoever their religion is devoted to.

Answer: I'm atheist, so I really don't care.

Question: What happens when a military spouse overseas cheats? (Preferably recent, like Iraq or Afghanistan)? We are currently studying adultery in one of my classes and I got the topic of “When the military spouse overseas cheats”. Yes, I know that it is far more likely that it will be the other way around, but I got assigned this topic so work with me. Has anyone cheated on their spouse while overseas or been cheated on by a spouse while they were overseas? I’d like to focus on more recent events. What happened? Why do you think it happened? Has it come out? (If so, How?) What happened to the marriage as a result for the event? Any other details would be nice. I’ve also heard of websites devoted to testimonies but I haven’t been able to find anything. Secondhand experiences are welcomed also.

Answer: Depends on a whole host of things. Enlisted guys tend to fare better than officers...the officers get a public shaming and are passed over for promotion, which is typically the end of their career. I'll tell you my story. I cheated on my spouse while in semi-isolated duty. He and i were having marital problems when i fell for a kid i worked with (ah, so stupid) a mutual friend ratted us out. my divorce papers where already being processed when the report was given, but me and the guy were called out for adultery and 8H (inappropriate relationship) and he got bumped down a paygrade, i lost my spot in my class list (i was due for training in about 2mo) we both got 45 days restricted to the barracks, 45 days extra duty 2hrs a day, 6mo probation. it sucked.