Mature Love

Question: What is the diffrance between Mature Love and Immature Love? Juss wanna know what is the meaning of Mature Love and Immature Love

Answer: Immature love is usually, but not always, based solely on lust or physical attraction. Its also usually based upon looking for someone based upon a set of predetermined criteria and expectations that one must meet. Mature love on the other hand can be based upon lust or physical affection as well but it always is based upon acceptance on the qualities of a person you don't like. Love is not a laundry or grocery list that you check off. Mature love is about loving someone for who they truly are in spite of their flaws in the partners mind. In my observation most people are not capable of mature love...especially women for the simple fact they they are always entering a relationship expecting the other to conform to their desires of the perfect mate.

Question: How do you know when you're in love (mature opinion please)? I heard the typical your heart beats faster, palms sweat, can't stop thinking about him and all that. But that's been the case with several guys, and I'm pretty sure not all of them are the one for me. LOL! So yeah, if you're mature and not 14 (sorry guys, I know you're still smart) then please tell me if how you know you're in love. Thanks! :)

Answer: ok there is love and lust. love is harder to find then lust. when your in love you just know it... theres a feeling that everything will be alright that it all just falls in place.. i was in lust with my ex husband i always thought i loved him but i didnt i didnt know how love felt til i married my 2 nd husband. you just know there no real way to explain it... what may feel like love is just lust. i didnt know what love was til i was 23

Question: What is the difference between teenage infatuation and mature love?

Answer: teenage is ok for............!!!

Question: Did we make love too soon, and is that possible with two mature adults who love one another? I'm in a very serious relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 3 months, but we have been friends for over a year, and we're very close. Recently, we made love to one another, and I repeat, MADE LOVE, not just lusty sex. I was however wondering, if sex in a relationship is more natural with two, mature adults, and if it was too soon? I feel no regrets, but since we made love, we have made love frequently; is that just natural?

Answer: If you were both ready and you both feel great and there are no regrets, then no, it's wasn't too soon. You both determine when the time is right and since you're old enough to make that decision; there's no right or wrong answer. You just go with the flow.

Question: How can you distinguish between puppy love and mature love?

Answer: There is no clear way of distinguishing...since "young love" or "puppy love" is often casted off as something fake and short term...when in fact it could be the real thing

Question: Who first invented the terms Mature love and Immature love? Or who are some researchers who research the terms in a depth reseach?

Answer: I found this great quote: "Immature Love Says " I Love You Because I Need You". Mature Love Says " I Need You Because I Love You". No research.

Question: What is the difference between mature love and symbiotic relationship? ? please dont give rude answers and if you are not able to understand it just ignore it

Answer: I always like to look to Aristotle to explain relationships. According to Aristotle, mature love is when two people share a "profound mutual respect." Not only do both people admire the others' virtues, but they are fully aware that the other person appreciates them too. Mature love or a "virtuous friendship" is not selfish because both people are honored just to share time with the other. A symbiotic relationship is simply one where there is some sort of mutual benefit. The lower two types of friendship occur here. One is based on "use" and one "pleasure." This means a person either does something useful for you (owns a car and you don't) or they enhance your enjoyment of something (good fun at a sports game). Of course the word "symbiotic" implies that both parties receive some sort of benefit. SUMMARY: Mature love deals in profound mutual respect, where a symbiotic relationship is purely superficial and material. Go get that A+ tiger.

Question: Does LOVE ever change or do you we only grow and mature in LOVE? Do you ever leave or abandon your first LOVE? Now that I have God's LOVE will there really be a counterfeit?

Answer: Recently I confronted a young man about whether he loved Christ. He was seated next to his fiancée, a beautiful girl with whom he was obviously infatuated. The Lord pointed this young man out to me and told me to say, "If you would fall in love with Jesus as much as you love this girl, all heaven would come down in your life." The words gripped his heart, and he began to weep. Several weeks later, I received a letter from one of his friends. It seems the young man had taken those words as having come directly from the Lord. Jesus was put back on the throne. The young man's prayers once again were being answered. His father, a man who was hardened to the gospel and had rejected it for years, was now back in church and melting in the presence of the Lord. Anything that takes the place of prominence in our lives is an idol. From lovers to land, from fame to fortune, from golf to game fishing. It's all idolatry when God is shoved to the side. How many men across this continent will rise before dawn to snag a few fish but won't roll out of bed to seek the Lord? How many Christians know more about pursuing a golf ball than pursuing God? How many young people can tell you who won the latest football game but are ashamed to tell their closest friends how not to lose their own souls? Such hypocrisy, such heartbreak!

Question: what kind of love is mature? What do you think of this? Mature love is not Vengance Mature love forgives Mature love refrains from rage & self control rules Mature love is not self seeking and not self centered... Do you agree?

Answer: Yes, and it is found in 1 Corinthians 13, called the love chapter.

Question: How do you define young, immature love? Adult, mature love? My first love was very passionate and "head in the clouds" sort of love. My new relationship (6 years later, at 27) is based more on shared values, interests and love and respect. I know this is a much stronger foundation, but I can't help but miss the infatuation and excitment of the first go around. Do you think I'm just thinking of immature love? How do you differentiate between that and an adult relationship?

Answer: Yeah; when you're young you have no responsibilities so it's easy. You tend to idolize life and people more readily. And careful, that longing for the "new" relationship feeling is why most women cheat. Mature love is /not/ an emotion. Love is what you do, choices, actions, sacrifices. Emotion follows action not the other way around. You feel "in love" when someone loves you. Many people describe that "in love" feeling as infatuation and say it cannot last - it can. It may come & go, but if you are in a healthy, solid, loving, well-matched relationship it does not permanently go away. If you make the other person >responsible< for your happiness, then that is called "codependency" and is a different problem entirely.

Question: I need a good mature romance manga preferably a love/hate type of story line? I'm sick of all these little girl shojo so I keep reading shounen help I need girl time! I've read Kaiken phrase, love caleb, and desire climax and I really liked them. So can you please recomend me some other manga titles thanks! Oh and for the love hate relationship it doesn't need to be mature it's a preference but it's okay of it's not.

Answer: Midnight Secretary Kaya thought she had found the perfect job when she became the private secretary of Kyouhei Touma - the director of a tableware company of the same name. Kyouhei is a capable director, but his arrogance and sluttish behavior are almost legendary. Kaya is doing her best to prove that she is capable in her work, but one night, by accident, she discovers his secret... of him being a vampire! Akuma na Eros Miu Sakurai, age 15, attends a Catholic school where she prays every day for her admired Shion Amamiya to return her love. When that doesn't work, she places her faith in a book of magic and tries casting one of its spells. However, it's not love that manifests... it's Satan! "The recompense for the contract to grant your wish is your virginity," he tells her, and this is Miu's virgin crisis! Honey x Honey Drops Yuzuru is a fifteen year old girl who is attending her first year in Houjou Academy. At her summer job, she met a troublesome rich boy, Renge Kai, who is attending the same school as her. Kai is part of the Kugeka, a class opened only to the rich students of Houjou. At the end of the summer break she finds out that she has become Kai's "Honey". This nickname is given to all the students from the regular class choosen by the Kugeka to become their assistants, so that the rich boys can be successful without any problem. The up side to being a Honey is that all their school fees will be taken care of. Although Yuzuru's family has some financial problems, she doesn't want to accept her role of being Kai's honey. But the only way to quit is to leave the school... What is she to do? Mars Kira believes that Rei and all other men in the world are dirty. She stays away from her classmates, hiding in her art. What happens when the delinquent motorcyclist and playboy, Rei, gets ahold of one of her drawings, and actually wants to keep it? Kira, a shy high school student, lives only for her art. Rei, An arrogant, rebellious and violent playboy, wears his delinquency like a badge of honor. They are exact opposites in every way, but when Kira sees Rei kissing a statue of Mars, she overcomes her fears and asks him to model for her. And, to everyone's surprise, Rei agrees. Hadashi de Bara wo Fume Sumi Kitamura is a poor average girl living in Meiji Era. To make it worse, she has 6 unrelated by blood baby brothers and sisters, and an older brother that left the town trying to get away from his debts, leaving them on her. In order to get money , Sumi goes wandering through the streets trying to sell herself for two thousand yen (equivalent to 3 million yen in modern-day Japan). Almost being raped by a man that will not pay, a man suddenly appears, saying that he will pay that amount if she marries him and throws all her love away for money.... Akuma De Sourou High school is difficult for most kids. But for Kayano, a shy girl whose single mother seems to work all the time, it's even worse than usual. She's so afraid of drawing attention to herself that she can't tell the handsome Kamijo how much she loves him until one day she finally gets up the courage to write him a letter confessing her feelings. When she goes to give him the letter all her plans go awry. She's given the letter to the wrong person! Accidentally, she's given her love letter to Takeru Edogawa who just so happens to be the school principal's son, head of the delinquents and the notorious "Prince of Attraction"! To Kayano, he seems like Satan himself. Not only is he devilishly handsome, but he seems to take the utmost pleasure in making her suffer. Things only get more interesting when Kayano's mother comes home one day and announces she's getting married again --- To principal Edogawa! What will Kayano do when she has to live with this devil 24/7? How will she cope with her literal "Hell on Earth"? Antique Romance "I am a human, but a doll... Feelings are not needed. Physically alive, but not mentally. I am a painting trapped inside rusted frame. The cold skin of a statue. Like a stuffed bird- killed and set for display I wonder... I wonder on whose display I will be put on..." Kyou, Koi wo Hajimemasu Tsubaki is a girl who loves making her younger sister's hair pretty every morning, but she doesn't think that kind of style suits herself! The day of her High School Beginning Ceremony, after she failed in being the top student (who usually makes the ceremony speech), she finds herself sitting next to the actual top student of the first years, the worst rude guy ever, Kyouta. She ends up cutting his hair on purpose because of the bad things he says to her. Kyouta demands that Tsubaki pay him back with her body, but Tsubaki fixes his hair instead--making it even shorter! After that, Kyouta unexpectedly kisses Tsubaki and swears that he'll take all her firsts. Love Monster After failing an entrance exam to her school of dreams, Hiyoko Osora gets an acceptance letter from SM academy without even applying.She arrives at the school and gets a huge shock...All the students are monsters!!. The head of the student council namely Kouro introduces her to the entire school and claims her as his fiance..then sprouts black wings. Hanayomesama Wa 16-Sai Tamaki is an only child brought up by her mother alone. But then, her mother passed away due to an illness, and now she has no relatives. When she visited the Ootori family - a family that's totally strange to her - according to her mother's will, the one waiting for her was Shinga, a super rich and hot guy, but also extremely arrogant and horrible. Suddenly, he declares that starting today, she's his wife, and he stole her first kiss?! Goong Monarchy ended long ago in Korea, but there are still other countries with Kings, Queens, princes and princesses. What if Korea had continued monarchism? What if all the beautiful palaces which are now only historical relics were actually filled with people?! What if the glamorous royal family still maintained the palace customs?! Welcome to a world where Korea still has the royal family living their lives! Only for this one high school girl, Che-Kyung, this is a tragedy, since she has to marry the prince who apparently is a total bastard! Haou Airen One day while walking home from her job, Kurumi Akino finds a wounded young man, and saves his life. He mysteriously dissapears after that, and leaves only the name Hakuron�. Next thing she knows she's been kidnapped from her school, and is on a private jet with that man, heading to China. It turns out she saved the life of the most infamous mobster in Hong Kong, and he wants her to stay with him. Hapi Mari Men - they're the root of Takanashi Chiwa's problems, which is why she never had the time nor the opportunity to have a boyfriend in her entire life. A full-time office lady and a part-time hostess, she works night and day to pay off her dad's debt from his failed business. One night at her part-time job, a high-class customer has her fired. Then the next day, she's called in to see the president - whom she had never even seen before in the office - only to find out she's to marry him! But what kind of guy is Mamiya Hokuto anyway? Will he become one of Chiwa's problems, or will he save her from them? And will this marriage even last?! Moe Kare!! Wakamiya Hikaru is a 15 year old teenager who read Shoujo mangas all the time. She wants a boyfriend that'll protect her and be her prince, just like in the mangas. One day... she gets into a tough situation and she was saved by a handsome boy. In return for saving her, she gets kissed by the boy who she calls the "Perverted Prince." Later on, she finds a guy who looks exactly like him, but it's not him? What's going to happen now? Dengeki Daisy Teru, a poor and kind girl, recently lost her older brother, her only remaining relative. Before he died, he gave her a cell phone connecting her to a person he said would support her if ever he were unable to. As time passes she is cheered on by text messages sent from this enigmatic person, known only as DAISY. But one day, through an unexpected incident as Teru begins working for the delinquent school janitor, Kurosaki, she starts to question DAISY's identity. DAISY may be closer to Teru than she thinks.

Question: What does it take to cultivate mature love?

Answer: Time, patience and every 'positive' you can muster up is needed and, the True, Infinite, unconditional Love of Almighty God. Most couples today cannot stand the test of time and all that comes with it, to see it through, unfortunately. Mature love is one that is rich in depth, a well kindled fire, a trust-fund for the heart. :D Peace and Blessings

Question: Polls; Do you agree with what Erich Fromm said about mature love and immature love? read details? Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.' Erich Fromm was one of the greatest psycho analysts of this century.

Answer: I deeply regret my procrastination of having only read one of Fromm's works so far (Escape from Freedom) despite having ample opportunities to do otherwise. Because of this I am admittedly ignorant of his views of love, so please be patient with me while I finally get around to reading his works associated with Love. But from little I know of it, I would agree that this is a very accurate quote. My own views on Love, while not up to Fromms, are this- Love in our youth is often lust with an emotional attachment. We see ourselves as young and our natural drives and instincts are geared toward our ego in that regard. As we get older, though-our lives become more stable (or they are supposed to) and we seek love out of that desire for stability. It is a great irony that in youth we seek sexual conquest and gauge this by the number of sexual encounters or partners (mainly males in this regard), but later in life we seek more security and stability are are more concerned with this than we were in our youth. Perhaps in this regard women are naturally more mature than we men are, as it is women who generally want to settle down and desire commitment first. Either way I have a lot of reading to do and these works are on my list.

Question: Is it stupid to think I am mature enough to love some one? I am fifteen, almost sixteen. I have a girlfriend and I really think that I love her, but I hate when kids my age, and some of my friends claim the same thing and then fizzle out in three weeks, but not after puting things like "I'll love you forever and EVER and EVER" in their msn or facebook statuses. So my question is, at this age am i ready to love some one or should i wait to see, and if I should wait, when will I know?

Answer: There are two stages of love. One is you meet a girl and you love her. Than you meet your soul mate and you fall in love with her. The first one is I love this girl and I love this guy and than it is break up time and it starts all over again

Question: How can I stop my mature girl's love afire? When I was a teenager I got afire with a mature woman. Like 30 years old. Now I suppose to get marry. I need to stop this mature woman’s afire but she does’t like to stop. She already got marry. What is the best way to stop this? Please help me.

Answer: stop seeing her... :D or make the sex REALLY bad... or too kinky for her... :D

Question: How am i not mature enough to handle love? I am 12. And i think i am in love. How am i not old enough to love somebody?

Answer: pfft thats bullshit i fell in love at first sight when i was 11, ur old enough to be in love but i dont think adults think ur old enough/ mature enough to be in love and know what it really means and not to do stupid things....................like now im older i can understand what adults mean like u know alot more when ur older than when ur in love and 12. like for example i thought love was everlasting and everything when i was 11 but now that im older i think love is overrated. i believe that if u think ur in love then u are, its not a thing someone easily says not even a 12 year old.

Question: wat r some great mangas that r , 16, mature, love/romantic? i have already read love celeb, doting love strip, sensual phase and so others opps i mean +16.

Answer: love hina, magic knight rayearth, priest, and chobits. oh and fruits basket.

Question: how can i prove to her that i am mature and feel nothing but love towards her? I am so completely in love with this girl. she is truly the love of my life. she says i'm not mature enough and i can agree but i want to be mature becuase i do not ever want to lose this woman from my life. i've made mistakes and not always just little ones but i want to push those aside and be just perfect for her and i need help cause i don't want her gone... can anybody help?

Answer: just show her how mature you can be, be the opposite of what she thinks is childish, and be mature, and a gentleman, ALWAYS be a gentleman:) GOOD LUCK!

Question: what is a mature love mean ? my boyfriend want me to become a mature love but i'm only 18 years old and I just want to be crazy love with him until when the marriages comes then I could be a mature love. is that right or what is that for ? ] why he want a mature love for ?

Answer: he just wants you to speak english like you're not a four year old

Question: PERSONAL QUESTION have you ever fell in love with a highly mature minor? just want to know. have you ever acted in love? would you? even if it wasnt on sexual terms and you still hawanted to enjoy the time you had with him/her.

Answer: Yeah.. Turned out her maturity was a facade. I never did anything with her, her current boyfriend did however... while her and I were dating...