Affair

Question: affair....? What does it mean? I'm confused. See i saw a book on it and it said 'family affair' , but i thought affair meant like having sex with someone.... ?? it said 'family affair' in a lizzie mcguire book... so it was defitly not sexual... but isnt afair something sexual?

Answer: Affair has more meanings than just an infidelity (#7 below): 1. An occurrence, event, or matter: The senator's death was a tragic affair. 2. A social function. 3. An object or a contrivance: Their first car was a ramshackle affair. 4. A matter of personal concern. 5. Personal business: get one's affairs in order. 6. A matter causing public scandal and controversy: the Dreyfus affair. 7. A romantic and sexual relationship, sometimes one of brief duration, between two people who are not married to each other.

Question: How to start an affair with a married woman with a daughter? A friend of mine is very hot and I'd like to have an affair with her. The problem is that she is married and has a little daughter. How should I start? Sometimes we go together to a park for letting her daughter play and I think it is the good moment. I have noticed that when she keep her daughter I can touch her (the mum) on her hip, shoulder, finger, neck, hair and she looks like nothing has happened. Would it be a good moment for a kiss?

Answer: Shouldn't be hard, over 25% of married American women have affairs. I don't blame them.

Question: How do I start an affair with a man? How do I approach a single man with a proposition? I want to have an affair.

Answer: tell him you want his snake to vomit in your cave ...LMAO!!!!!

Question: How do you describe an emotional affair or a physical affair? what is an emotional affair? What is pyschically affair? What are the root causes and actions that make them so?

Answer: An emotional affair is when you confide in another person details about your current situation, your deepest desires and discuss feelings for one another. You are there for each other on an emotional level that is comparable or more than you are with your current partner. An emotional affair usually precedes a physical affair. A physical affair involves physical affection and/or a sexual relationship that doesn't involve your current partner. If your behavior on a physical level with another person would upset your current partner, then it would be considered a physical affair. Problem is most emotional and physical affairs go hand in hand at some point. The reason for them occurring is totally individual and there is no overriding cause among all people. Possibly the lack of understanding, compassion, communication or desire from your partner. Some people may have a sexual addiction, while others wonder if the grass is greener on another side. Usually something you are in need of is lacking in some area of your relationship to consider an affair.

Question: What is the definition of an emotional affair with a married person? I think it is mainly defined as to a person who confides secrets to the other person, talks bad about his/her spouse and talks about his/her troubles, whether it be in his/her marriage or troubles in general. How would you definite an emotional affair? These traits? Or, other ones too?

Answer: What some people call an emotional affair, other people call friendship. I have never thought that it was ok to forbid a spouse from having a friend of the opposite sex. However, if your spouse relates to an individual of the opposite sex in a way that he/she knows is against your permission, that is an affair. Emotional or otherwise.

Question: What is the definition of having an extramarital affair? Is being close to someone and fond of someone the same as having an affair? Like wanting to talk to them for long hours, finding yourself hanging out where they are, going where they are? Of course, all assumed this someone is of the opposite sex and not your partner. Like wanting to cheer them up, smile at them and be nice to them. Because if that is the case, how can you even have friends of the opposite sex after you are married! Isn't that option out? And what would people think if a woman acted this way toward someone who is not her husband?

Answer: If it crosses the point where you would be uncomfortable for your spouse to be present, then at least an inappropriate emotional attachment has begun. If everything that happens could comfortably happen in front of your spouse without the spouse being reasonably threatened, then it's all good. Be careful, though because it might be hard to see if a change happens in the wrong direction. :-)

Question: What are the statistics of a lasting relationship from an extramarital affair,is it possible? If two people were friends first, began an emotional affair and eventually intimacy. Both really feel in love, have separated from their spouses six months ago because of the affair and chose to remain living this way as they cannot deny their feelings for each other and the connection that exists.Their spouses still want to save their marriage. This has gone on for two years.

Answer: Anything is possible but the likelihood is very low. Them not divorcing after so long is suspicious and makes that chance even lower.

Question: How will the John Edwards affair affect the Democratic Party's chances at the White House? For those of you who don't know, John Edwards admitted today that he had an extramarital affair with a former campaign video producer in 2006. He continuously lied about the affair throughout his campaign, calling it false and tabloid trash. In your opinion, what impact (if any) will this revelation have on the Democrats as they try to retake the White House?

Answer: No effect. Americans are too smart to judge an entire party based on one man's poor choices.

Question: How can I end an affair if I am soooooo emotionally attached? I have been having an affair with a married man for almost a year and it is clear he wont leave his wife for me. I on the other hand have left my husband....7 months ago! I am madly in love with this man but I can't be with him if he is not going to divorce his wife. I have told him this and I cannot do it anymore. He told me he doesn't like the idea of him being a "divorced man". I was thinking of calling his wife to tell her that he is having an affair. What are your opinions?

Answer: I have been in your situation as far as the love that you feel toward the other person. I think all of the people on the M&D site that say that it's not love, it's lust are just angry. Of course cheating is not right and never will be under any condition, but you are the only person who knows how you feel. The best thing to do is not talk to him at all. It's very, very, very hard to do, but in my situation I had to think about what was really best for him and also remember that even if he left his wife, eventually the mess it would create would lead to resentment and anger. If he wants to leave his wife, let him do it when your not in the picture. Maybe, at that time (if it happens) you two might have a chance. Also, if you do not think you can keep from talking or texting him by phone, you should get your phone number changed. Besides, let's say you really love him and he may love you, I am sure if you go calling his wife he won't react the way you want him to.

Question: What about an affair with a married boss? A regular female associate, a older much more powerful (significantly higher standing in the company) boss, are beginning an affair.What are the female's rights if things go bad? What are the potential consequences for the boss? (The company has a non-fraternization policy between associate and supervisors). The advances are welcome on both sides, but what are the potentials, and what are the female's options, if things get ugly?

Answer: Be prepared for them both to be fired. At the least the female employee will be fired and the senior employee will sustain considerable damage to his career and home life. If they think it won't be found out they are dead wrong. If she knowingly entered into this affair then there are no options or rights when, not if, it gets ugly. Sorry if that is not what you wanted to hear but I think you already knew the answer.

Question: What should wife do when her husband has a baby daughter in an extramarital affair? What should wife do when her husband has a baby daughter in an extramarital affair? The mother does not want the child so; she will give her to her father (your husband). Your husband brings the child home with you and is a very good father to her. You have two children with him already and is a very good father. The man does not want a divorce.

Answer: my husband did not have an affair on me, but was not aware of a child he had produced till after we were married, we have custody of him now going on 3 years, its tough but if you can forgive him for the affair, maybe you can love the child and help raise her, it will be hard but hey if you are strong enough to get over an affair you are one tough lady!!! my hat is off to you :)

Question: What is the general outcome of an extramarital affair? Has anyone ever had/been involved in an extramarital affair? What was the outcome? What were the circumstances?

Answer: If you're good at it the persons having the affair have some fun and the spouse never finds out...

Question: What is the line crossed from an emotional friendship with someone you are not married to to an affair? We all have friends and share emotions at times with these friends. Is that an affair? At what point does it change? Become more? What do you all think?? What is the distinction between a strong emotional friendship and an emotional affair?

Answer: If you have fantasies about him/her it's okay. It's when you cross the line & make those fantasies reality that it becomes cheating. Don't put yourself in a situation that will lead to it though. That's just as bad. You have to ask yourself, do you love your spouse? Would you be upset if they cheated on you?

Question: What are signs of a man wanting an affair? A married man who I am attracted to and have undeniable chemistry with approached me with a situation involved his relationship with his wife. I'm not getting into the specifics of this situation, and I'm not implying that I want to have sex with him. What are general signs married men give if they are hinting at having an affair?

Answer: honey who cares what signs he is giving or not he is married and that means alot , so dont be the one to break it up because he cant keep his dic* where it belongs you will be the one hurting in the end, why do that to your self, or the other lady, hot man

Question: Is the affair partner generally better in bed than the spouse or simply more prolific? I would think that the affair partner has some added talents the spouse doesn't possess in 80% of cases.

Answer: Prolific in what, Eddie? Making you feel like you're the man or in bearing babbies? All kidding aside, an affair partner does not have to be "better" in bed, they just have to make you feel they have that extra special something that your spouse doesn't have. It's all in your mind or at least 80% of it is.

Question: How do i stop myself from having an affair? I have been a good relationship for 4.5 years now. I am happy and everything is going well, although the sex has become pretty boring. We have talked about this several times, but she is always going to be lacking the kinky sexuality that I have. I guess everybody is different and I should accept that. However, I have been tempted to have an affair for a while now. How do I stop myself from making this mistake as I have decided that I want to stay with my current GF.

Answer: Honestly, the best way to STOP yourself is to first: 1) TELL your g/f that you are feeling dissatisfied with certain things in your relationship and you DON'T WANT to be unfaithful to her but you're afraid of the temptation.... 2) KEEP focused - DON'T PUT yourself in a position to cheat - pure & simple. 3) Be accountable to your g/f for your time, whereabouts & activities 4) ASK her if she will at least TRY to meet you in the middle with regard to your sexual needs.... (since you feel so neglected!) 5) Make HER and your relationship a priority - put the time, effort, love, attention, affection etc into THIS relationship then you won't feel the TUG to stray... Bottom line - use some self control man....

Question: What is the best way to deal with a child of your husband from an affair that's already ended? I just found out my husband had an affair, and a child from it, but it ended up already a few years now and is really sorry about it. Now, since we're rebuilding our relationship from scratch and nothing is happening between us (couple) and the child and/or mistress. We both know that he needs to face his responsibility, no matter how hurting it is - in the future. What is the best way to do this? I am just being fair to the child, but would like to lessen the hurt.

Answer: This is a very big decision. I'm impressed by your ability to look at the situation objectively and look out for the best interest of the child. However, I believe this is a decision for the mother, as she has been the parent of the child so far. I'd encourage a discussion between the mother and your husband, understanding it will be her decision. He can discuss it with you and hopefully you can all find a resolution. This is one of those questions that requires an answer beyond the capabilities of anyone posting answers. There is no real right or wrong answer. As for you, your obvious good and forgiving nature may not be enough to get your through this situation. You may want to encourage your husband to see a marriage counselor or therapist. You'll need someone to talk to about your feelings, without undoing positive progress you have made in mending the wounds.

Question: My husband had an emotional affair and gets angry if I want to talk about it? My husband a college teacher had an a emotional affair with a female student. I found out because I discovered his secret cell. Whenever I try to talk about it he gets very angry. I am just trying to understand why this happened. He has stopped calling since I found the cellphone. However I don't know if this a pattern of behavior that will continue. Why does he get so angry when I ask to talk about his affair?

Answer: Kayla,you husband is a liar,he has had more than one affair,why have a secret mobile phone,get shot of him,he obviously liked this slut,get shot of this man and get love from someone else,it won,t change ,I know.

Question: Why do current affair programs keep playing the same stories over? Do they think the public wont notice if they recycle old news as current affair? My concern is that these repeated stories arent the most pressing issue at hand.

Answer: Because people watch them, especially old people. They just love to hear about 'shonky tradesmen' and 'youth gone wild'.

Question: What should I do about a friend having an affair with a married man? So my friend, who is not married is having an affair with a married man. I absolutely do NOT agree with it, but don't really know what to say. I love my friend, but right now I don't even know if I can be around her right now. What's the best way to handle the situation?

Answer: just tell her its not right, but also remember that it is her life and she can do what she wants.