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Family Violence Indicator

A designation that resides in the Federal Case Registry (FCR) placed on a participant in a case or order by a State or Tribe that indicates a person is associated with child abuse or domestic violence. It is used to prevent disclosure of the location of a party and/or a child believed by the State or Tribe to be at risk of family violence.

Question: Family violence question? I have been in a relationship with a man for seven years during this time we had a child together who is now three years old. I have been unhappy for most of the seven years and was always looking for a way out. About two months ago I was finally able to get him out of my home. I am currently pursueing child support and they asked me to check a box on the application if there was any family violence indicator. For years I believed I suffered from emotional, mental, verbal and physical since he did push me down once. The application was specific and spoke only of physical abuse. I may have to go into court and I do not want to look like a woman scorned but i have no way to prove mental, verbal or emotional abuse. Should I just check the box that I have experineced abuse? I ask b/c I may have to go into court and I am not ready to face him b/c he is manipulative when it comes to dealing with our son and i cannot lose the little help i recieve until I get some support.

Answer: Check the box. He pushed you once, next time it could be your child. Also be sure to state that one of the reasons you are leaving him is that while you didn't have the courage to leave him on your own, you are scared that he will abuse your child and you just can't risk your son being abused by one of your partner's episodes.

 


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